FullaBella's Journal, 03 November 2014

I am Rockin' the Mindful Eating Today! Giving myself a gold star at 2pm as incentive to finish out the day; well earned as I joined Grace's church group for 'Ladies who Lunch' and was seated next to Teacher Face. We dined at a soup / salad / pie buffet and I actually put a small amount of the various salads on my plate and TASTED (( and enjoyed!)) each slowly instead of my recent M.O. of shoveling in food while considering seconds. Huge baked potato - brought over half of it home for dinner or lunch tomorrow.

Free pie (yeah, seriously) and I brought it (chocolate turtle) & a second slice (chocolate meringue) to share with a new friend but she can't make it. Ah well, more opportunities to practice and firmly cement the regained mindfulness. But I did hide it behind the yogurt & chia seeds in the fridge. I need all the help I can give myself.



Yesterday was total rest & recovery day. The 'child' in me glanced out the door at the cool Autumn weather with ambition but the adult in me curled up on the sofa with a quilt and took two naps. I still slept well last night; chemically enhanced after a bit of leg wrestling but sleep indeed. Naps for me are like Wolf Brand chili ... few and far between.

My new friend, a lady I met in the shop this morning, turned out to be one of those people who could have been telling 'my' story; we even have the same name! She too has lost her husband of 20+ years to COPD within the last year; has less than admiral stepchildren, and more. I invited her to join us for lunch but she was delayed at the bank and didn't make it. Maybe another time.

I loved that the buffet is within walking distance of me and am grateful I am healthy enough to walk there without discomfort. There is just something so 'healthy' feeling about walking toward a destination rather than driving. I also discovered Yoga lives less than two miles from me and will be perfect for bike riding when I go visit her. I MAY check out two-wheel bikes as she does have a dog and I am overly protective of Mushy. I left the door open yesterday so that she felt grownup enough to lounge on the chaise outside at will but somehow she managed to pick up something that made her sick. But she's better today.

That's it for now. Happy Monday to all. Here's to an extraordinary week for all of us.

Bells


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I'm so happy you're continually meeting people. And to meet someone who shares similar life experiences. The butterfly is emerging.  
03 Nov 14 by member: ClassicRocker
So nice to meet new people that share something common with you! 
03 Nov 14 by member: aggie95
Thank you for my virtual hug! I needed that today. Glad you met a person you have so much in common with, though it is so sad you both have lost someone so precious to you. ((Hugs)) to you and her. Good for you being such a social butterfly! Glad Mushy is okay. Take care and have a wonderful day! 
03 Nov 14 by member: kattay
Your post is making my mouth water... lol Good for you, seems like you've had a couple of wonderful days. If you string enough of them together you end up with a happy life!!!  
03 Nov 14 by member: NowIunderstand
And I'm sending a virtual hug right back, my mindful Angel! You sound great.. your restful day and new friend agree with you! So No Weigh Nov, it is for us... and yes, I'll be shaving too! xoxox 
03 Nov 14 by member: Ruhu
Sounds like a great day and made a new friend, what a great bonus. Enjoy the rest of it. 
03 Nov 14 by member: LadyBea40
I love your social life ! I am starting to feel like a hermit here. I hear Dallas calling. It will happen someday. Just too long a drive to do myself right now. There is something wonderful about hiding cake behind your chia seeds lol. I love that. 
03 Nov 14 by member: sharonfriz
It's so good to find someone that knows what you're going through. It helps to have someone to discuss things with. Enjoy your day! 
03 Nov 14 by member: SJacqueline
It does sound like fun. Mine is rather dull, work, home, projects, family. I really need to get adventurous and get out more.  
03 Nov 14 by member: wholefoodnut
Happy Monday indeed! I've tried hiding goodies and it seems I always find them! My DH left half a piece of cheesecake in the fridge. Been there for the better part of a week. Who only eats half a piece of cheesecake? Needless to say I found it last night and now it is gone. I'd be jealous indeed if you get Sharon to come to Dallas for a show! I'm needing to visit some friends in Texas ... Wouldn't that be a hoot!? 
03 Nov 14 by member: madaboutmoose
So happy for you. Rest, choices you value for yourself, new friend, lovely days - I can feel the pride you have in yourself. Your little girl deserves both the boundaries (stay in and rest) and the appreciation for working with you to make healthy decisions that make BOTH of you happier. So glad you were able to get some sleep. 
04 Nov 14 by member: Sweet Ce

     
 

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