dating is for fun, eventually if you don't take this so serious you will find someone you click with. Guys are out to enjoy themselves and you need to do the same. if you are looking too hard for a relationship instead of fun companionship they get nervous and run off before you both find out if you enjoy each others company.
23 Sep 18 by member: baskington
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better to not be in a relationship than to be in the wrong one. cherish your freedom for now. enjoy yourself with friends. take care of you. 😀
23 Sep 18 by member: sallkr3
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If your personality matches your beautiful smile, you are certainly not worthless. Any guy who only wants you if you lose weight is not worth looking for. Be yourself, enjoy what you like to do, and stay strong. Love often shows up when you least expect it!
23 Sep 18 by member: mehminus60
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Keep doing good with the weight and be patient. Remember your value shouldn't be based on what other people think, it should be based on yourself. Good things usually take time.
23 Sep 18 by member: goingforit2016
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Sounds like he wasn't worth his weight in salt - good riddance to him if he made you feel worthless! Chin up - life's short - find your own fun and people who luv you for who you are!
23 Sep 18 by member: thenester
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Please don’t worry. Men are like jelly Beans, there’s a million to choose from but some aren’t sweet.
If you’re like I was. Just as soon as I thought no more. I met the man I’ve now been married to for 43 years.
Good luck and don’t worry. When they say goodbye show them the door.
You are too cute to be alone for long!
23 Sep 18 by member: caraken
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Women can be the same way with "Husky" guys... Stay strong. Do it for YOURSELF!
23 Sep 18 by member: stana2z
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I'm sorry you want through that... no words.
23 Sep 18 by member: From371to184
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The right guy is out there. Stop looking. That's when it always happens. You are beautiful. If a guy is looking for the perfect little woman, she doesn't exist.
23 Sep 18 by member: Erquiaga
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I feel like that all the time with women. Only ever had one relationship. I was in great shape my entire life so that wasnt the cause. For some reason just cant find anybody. So for now just focusing on bettering myself. You are good enough for anybody. Its their lost if they dont see your worth. Keep improving yourself and you will find happiness.
23 Sep 18 by member: Alpheus500
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This too shall pass. You will feel different in the future.
23 Sep 18 by member: adefwebserver
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don't feel like your worthless most relationship occur when you least expect it. concentrate on you and soon you will be a we 😊
23 Sep 18 by member: countrycatcfc
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Don't put your value in someone else. You will find the right one when it's time. Weight isn't everything. I was at my heaviest when I got married. I promise when you stop looking and focus on you things will fall into place
23 Sep 18 by member: denpat0926
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Love youself first, and whatever is meant to be will happen in its own time.when they say you have to kiss a lot of frogs, before you meet the prince, they weren't kidding. Those frogs you have been dealing with aren't worth a second thought. They seldom are looking for relationships. Be slow to give your heart, so it doesn't get broken. It has little to do with your weight, most women have the same problems.
23 Sep 18 by member: Sally Forest
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Sharon
You seem to be a very care person and from your profile photo you have a adorable smile. Love will fine you when your not expecting it. But for the time being just keep loving and keeping your spirits positive. We all go through this in our lives. But you can make it through this low. Plus we are all here for support. 😁😁😁
23 Sep 18 by member: Steve klink
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Sharon this is ALL excellent advice from everyone. FatSecret has such an amazing group of people! Look at Alpheus’s photos too and consider his experience despite being fit. My advice is to just focus on making happiness a choice no matter who is in or out of your life. Have fun, enjoy your freedom, be spontaneous, do new things, explore and celebrate what makes you tick & makes you unique. If a partner is in the cards he will come when the time is right , but in the meantime, the truth is: love in so many different forms is already ALL around you! 😊
23 Sep 18 by member: Bluecoaster
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A week hardly a relationship makes, love you and others with follow. You are doing the right things for you, someone will notice, it's worth the wait for the right one.
23 Sep 18 by member: A Big Boy
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I don’t know your age but there are a lot of horrible men out there. The good ones are rarely in their 20s or 30s. And the great ones have a lot of battle wounds. I’m not sure if I looked like you, i’d feel inclined to lose weight. I was creeping on your bikini pics and you’re hot in every size sister! You don’t need a man to validate you...easier said than done. I hope tomorrow is a better day for you.
23 Sep 18 by member: tsamtos2s8
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I gotta tell ya, confidence is important as is loving yourself. However, you don't want a guy that wouldn't want you as you are right this minute. If he only is there because you're skinny. then he's not worth it and won't treasure you like you deserve because he's only there for the superficial. Sort of like that meme/saying on FB - if you can't handle me at my worst you don't deserve me at my best (please know my reference of this is not intended to say being "overweight" is a person being at their worst).
23 Sep 18 by member: Kenda M
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Okay just for the record, I’m a man....from what you have said it sounds like you haven’t been meeting real men - but sorry just some scum. From what I know of you from your posts your a genuinely nice woman who lots of men would love to meet but for some reason you have not met one of these guys yet - yet because I believe you will one day. But one thing for sure, please don’t pick a man who only cares about a number on a scale and isn’t interested in who you are and what is going on between your ears. Keep the faith and spend some time making sure you know how good you are.
23 Sep 18 by member: adam247
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