45poundlooser's Journal, 01 August 2021

God speed and strength to you! My uncle just lost his job 2nd child at the age of 35 [covid complications] his first son was 18. Life truly isn't fair a lot of the times. I'm sorry that you and your family are going through that! But as you said she would want you to be in the best health possible! Use her spirit and the memories that can never be taken from you to fuel your way back to where you want to be! So many times I think we all look to far down the road. Look at it as a battle that has to be won one meal at a time, one day at a time. To me that simplifies the battle! It's really you versus yourself! You can do this, you just have have believe! 

So sorry for your tragic loss. May God give you the grace you need to get through this very difficult time. 

Big hugs and condolences on your loss. I cannot imagine having the strength to get myself out of bed in the morning, much less to get in shape if I had your sorrow to bear. You are absolutely right to focus forward and positive. Wishing you strength, courage, joy, and peace on the road ahead.  

Thoughts and prayers for recovery from your terrible loss. You are right, of course, that your daughter would want the very best for you. 

I’m so sorry for your loss, I hope you find peace ❤️‍🩹 

I am so sad for your loss. No other words here. God Bless You. 

I too lost a 21 yo daughter (25 years ago) I feel your sadness and loss. Heartbreaking really 💔 I gained 80 pounds. It really didn’t help. Your awareness that she would want you to be healthy is profound. Sending you prayers and peace. 🕊 

so sorry for your loss and the real struggle.  

May God make it easier for you <3. Stay strong. Take time and heal. You can do it. We’re all here for you. Much love ❤️❤️❤️❤️ 

I just about lost my daughter. she's good. one day at a time.  

All my love to you and your family. Try setting smaller goals (like 10% of your weight), it helps not to get discouraged. You honor your daughter taking care of yourself. If you need any help we're here for you. 

I am sorry for your loss. No matter what anyone says the pain will be there. Time heals all wounds. You can channel your pain and sorrow into getting healthy. She wouldn't want you to stop living. 

My sincerest condolences for the loss of your daughter. My prayers are with you and your family. 

Be kind to yourself and take things one bit at a time. You are going through something unthinkable. Sending loving thoughts to you.❤️❤️❤️❤️ 

I can't imagine what you're going through. The only thing I offer here is that maybe try to be patient with yourself as you work through your grief. It's a personal, unique journey that only you can travel. My heartfelt condolences to you and your family. 

I have no words. I am so sorry for your loss.  

Prayers for your strength and healing. Listen to that precious voice that you expressed in your last sentence - our daughter would want you to go on. It IS time to start anew. You have the knowledge and strength to do this in loving memory of your beloved child. 

.i am so sorry for your loss. I understand....it is so hard. i lost my daughter when she was 29. i gained alot like 60-70 lbs. so her we go. prayers. 

Prayers and condolences in regards to your daughters death. I can't even imagine your pain but you are right about the fact that you need to go in. Honor her life and get yours back on track. Of course it will take time. Of course it will be hard. Just know you will get alot of support from the friends on this site! 💜🙏💜🙏💜🙏💜🙏 

I'm so saddened from your loss. ministering spirits sent to you and your family. you will get back to your food plan and exercise.... don't give up. ❤