Mjgh06's Journal, 01 August 2018

Wow, that would make me mad... 

Strange how that works. It's like being teens, where cigarettes, drugs, alcohol, cuts, tattoos is pushed on you to be 'cool' to belong in the group. Past teens we still see some that some has not grown above that stage. What can you say... I don't know... tempting to say, forgive them, fot they do not know what they are doing. Our health will degrade soon enough without a need to help it accelerate. Keeping health up to a level that makes living great, takes focus. You may allow yourself to feel sorry for this person who do not know better. He'll probably grow up to better ways in a few years. 

Wow! Insensitive af Sometimes ppl just don’t get it. I get the same shit from my friends and family. Luckily not all of them though. Stay strong! 

@Diddlee no he will never change or grow up. He is great in other ways as being a wonderful father and husband for the most. He just has that school kid attitude of what is funny in life. He would be and still does think pulling someone's pants down in hilarious. smh... 

yes that is rude and unkind. stay strong. you can resist. glad you have this platform to vent.  

Diet saboteurs will always lurk somewhere. I do not think I have ever NOT Had at least one throughout my entire life. 

Ye s, sometimes they are just a PIA. 

Men are like that, I mean my husband literally eats family size bags of chips In front of me 

Now In days I honestly think it’s not worth eating a lot of chips 

that is bad and I would get upset if my husband did it to me. But I would and will pull the fixings off the pizza and eat that. I am gearing up for one soon! Mine will be double pepperoni 

Maybe i have too much attitude, but if someone did that to me I'd snatch the food, take it to a garbage can and drop it in. 

My hubby can be the same at times. I took delight one day in explaining how I plan to sabotage HIS diet the next time he does medifast or whatever. He was shocked! Then I calmly explained how each statement I made had been made by him about my diet. Example: ‘you are depriving us. We shouldn’t have to eat fajitas just so you can lose weight!’ Well we had fajitas twice a month usually anyway so having it 3x wasn’t much of a change. My not having a potato while they did didn’t effect them at all other than they didn’t get to watch me eat one. Since then he’s been more supportive. Not great mind you but he does stop and think a bit more. I wasn’t very nice about it and I think that’s what got his attention. BUT he still insists on eating out more than we ever have in the past yet allows me to nix some places if I can’t fit it in. I get three choices and one of them had better fit for me lol. Usually it does as I can get fajitas at the Mexican place, sandwich or soup at most family places etc. If your hubby has never dieted then he truly doesn’t get it. Enlighten him 😉. 

Guess some just need to hit a health crises before they turn around. Have to admit I'm one. 

Thank you everyone for all your comments and support. 

Mjgh06 @SquirrelB your comment made me laugh. Thank you. ----------------------------------@Pepperjj no he has never dieted, but he is allergic to eggs and has a sensitive stomach where he does not like any type of spice besides pepper and salt on any food and has complained often about how I cook to spicy. Never gonna give that up. I come from a family that spice is life. When I told him I have always been supportive of his food issues to the point I cook separate meals for him because of his bland diet and I make sure I never use eggs for his food or the same pans I use. his response was "You knew I was an asshole when you married me" (him laughing).....-----@Baskington as soon as I am off the fast, I plan on making my own keto pizza using a cheese crust, and maybe a huge steak for one.  

That is not right! I have a BFF that says, "oh you can have just one bite, it won't hurt you" She has NO IDEA that the one bite starts the cravings and obsessive eating behavior and IT DOES HURT ME! I finally explained to her point blank how it does effect me so now she is not AS insistent but still does say I don't need to loose any more weight and I should have 'this' or 'that'. But half the stuff she pushes in front of me is not something I would eat anyway and when it is I really remind her of how it bothers me! 

Not cool.  

next time you have eggs, put them up to his mouth. wow, sorry about that. hopefully that's his only a$$hole trait 

I have had people do that. Not good especially when I have told them my struggle. But anyway we will get through it. 

Dang! That's not cool at all. Like @sallkr3 said, good thing you vent here. So, what exactly happens if he "accidentally" eats an egg?