keep pushing Sis. this too shall pass. do something nice for yourself. you have done and is doing good -just relax and re-focus on U-everything will fall into line.
03 May 18 by member: marshakanady
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Thank you millalite. That’s good advice! I usually say thank you but not sure what to say next— your suggestion is great.
03 May 18 by member: momma6224
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I am the same way. I had a melt down last night, sitting in my room all alone I looked down at my stomach and just cried. I get you! Just know that you are doing so well!! You are making amazing progress and you have inspired and motivated so many people. You are a kind good person and we are all the better for knowing and getting to share in your life. You are an amazing woman!! Thank you for supporting me, motivating and caring about me. You can get through this!! We will be here with you the whole way!
03 May 18 by member: Klynn82
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I think a lot of us here have those same self love issues. I think about when I was smaller than I am now thinking that I was fat or couldn't wear this or that because I was too big, and now I wish I was that size, but also wonder if I get back to that size will I still feel the same way?? Just get through this hormonal time and hopefully things will start looking up. It's hard to change the way we think about ourselves, but I think it should be part of this journey too, to find the love that we deserve from ourselves.
03 May 18 by member: mars2kids
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03 May 18 by member: itzclay
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Your post brought tears to my eyes. I understand. Sometimes all the compliments in the world simply fall on our own deaf ears, because the compliments do not match our beliefs about ourselves at the time. You know what's going on and you are doing a great job taking care of yourself, it just takes practice and sometimes it's too easy to go back to familiar behaviors. Sending you love and an imaginary non-calorie treat of your choice. <3 ;)
03 May 18 by member: Becc@
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Momma, well . . . --- it may feel awkward to you for any number of reasons (some of which you've sort of indicated), but when somebody goes out of their way to compliment you, smile and say thank you! Receive it! This will do you a world of good! Also, scour youtube and find motivational or affirming videos you like. These might include secular and/or religious sources. Listen 30 minutes/day while doing various chores. This can begin to give you a different perspective and will help you begin to say positive things to yourself. Finally, realize that you're loved, deeply loved. Your husband loves you, your kids love you, your friends love you, and God loves you, and not only that but you are doing a great and monumentally important work caring for your kids. It's fundamental. Nothing more important. So, hang in there!
03 May 18 by member: HardDaysKnight
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I've been following your weight loss success for a few weeks and you have inspired me so much on this low carb journey. Thank you!
03 May 18 by member: Suzi Cue
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I was watching 600 pound life and the woman had a lack of self-love so the counselor gave her a mirror and told her to look at herself with "kind eyes" and describe some things about herself that were positive. She couldn't do it. I know I would have trouble with that exercise too. We all need to be more self-loving and acknowledge the goodness in our hearts and contributions to society. When I say that I don't mean in the form of accomplishments or accolades. For example, your spirit and presence in the community is a positive for all of us. That is just being who you are and sharing it and that means a lot to many of us! Another thing is how you share yourself with your family and friends. Your spirit and self are worth a lot.
03 May 18 by member: ny_shelly
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I’m sitting in my car waiting for an appointment and crying my eyes out reading your comments. So much love and support from people I’ve never met...hope you can all feel how much it means to me. I will take your advice and work on myself. I feel nothing but genuine love and care from you all and this is why I’ve been able to get where I am with my weight loss. You make all the difference to me.
03 May 18 by member: momma6224
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I am my own worst critic - that is so true. I think that my "event" really helped me get that process in perspective. I am still a tough critic - but I have begun to temper it a bit with some positive self talk. the journal here helps with that - I try to add what I have learned and where I succeed - I also add where I am not doing so well because it is about balance. I really appreciate your posts and your progress. I hope you enjoy your adventure today and that you find a belt.
03 May 18 by member: tahoebrun
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03 May 18 by member: adefwebserver
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Momma— just say thank you. No explanation required.
03 May 18 by member: Kenna Morton
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Momma, This time I'm on bended knee,with flowers in one hand and an outstretched hand.You are the wonderful woman I've always dreamed about..
Will You Marry Me.
03 May 18 by member: murphthesurf
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Haha murph! What would your sweet wife say? 😉 thank you for always making me feel good
03 May 18 by member: momma6224
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Aww momma
You’re amazing
And always help and support others in this community
You’ve done so well
Make some time for you
Keep going
Say thanks for the compliments
You’re doing my great
👍👍🤗🤗👏🏻👏🏻
03 May 18 by member: gaelicgal
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As everyone has said, say thank you and, if you can, offer a compliment back. Then take note of the compliment and think about what they saw that they wanted to comment on. Look at yourself through their eyes without embarrassment and you’ll grow to love yourself too. You’ve come a long way so don’t diss yourself! Take care 🤗
03 May 18 by member: Phooka
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Oh just want to hug you now!
03 May 18 by member: Aguuulek
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I suffer in this way also! I really fo into self loathing and usually males me sabotage my own goals so i end up losing the same 7lbs each month - im determined this month to stay on track and not reach for the comfort food coz i feel crappy and down!
03 May 18 by member: bella_44
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More tears...you all are the best ❤️
03 May 18 by member: momma6224
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