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The Letter -- "I apologize if I was out of line. Your friendship is valuable and I was angry and hurting; I probably should not have said what I did."
My husband said he had one problem with the letter -- the word "if" -- there was no admission of actually realizing that yes, she did make a mistake. My co-workers had one problem with the word "probably"...they agree with husband. It's true she realizes something has changed, but really doesn't believe she had much to do with it.
What do you think? How should I respond?
On the plus side, hubby and I did 30 minutes of strength workout on ipad yesterday...talk about a killer workout! I look forward to when I can do all 90 seconds consecutively! Some workouts were 24 counts max, while others were 12! We're probably gonna need more good mats, as I give hubby the yoga mat while I had a folded up blanket (not as good).
Supper - should have stopped after basic supper. Changed up from shake to tuna/quinoa/figs. Better tasting together than you think. (I am weird) But noooooo, even without the extra calories I added 2 outshine bars (pineapple are fantastic), and some raw almonds (1/2c). Finally turned off the kitchen light and stopped the madness.
Diet Calendar Entry for 15 August 2014:
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2493 kcal
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Fat: 71.98g | Prot: 81.93g | Carb: 433.29g.
Breakfast: Planters NUT-rition Heart Healthy Mix (counting out whole nuts), Blackberries , Chex Cereal, Fiber One Original Cereal, Tap Water, Figs , So Delicious Coconut Milk Unsweetened Vanilla, General Mills Kix Cereal. Lunch: Apples, Kroger Bottled Water, Beef and Blue Cheese Wraps, Great Value Canned Sweet Peas, Carrots. Dinner: Coconut Milk Unsweetened Vanilla, Kix Cereal, Original Cereal, Rice Chex Cereal, Figs. Snacks/Other: Peach, Outshine Fruit Bars - Strawberry, NUT-rition Heart Healthy Mix (counting out whole nuts), Part Skim Mozzarella Cheese, Bob Evans Hot Earl Grey Decaf Tea. more...
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I personally would respond with thank you so much for recognizing that I was offended by your behavior. I wish you all the best.. Have a great day. If I didn't want to continue if I wanted to continue the friendship then this is an opening to tell her what you found offensive and why? Sometimes people use the word if as an "out clause" and I am one of those people that are very very direct so if I am asked I will give my opinion to them. As they say ball in your court on what and how you want to address..
15 Aug 14 by member: Rains120
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The best pizza I have ever had was fig and goat cheese...I had it 3 years ago in Denver, yep, I remember the day, it was that good! Let's see, about the letter...I agree with hubby that's it's not an admission of wrongdoing....if you're still angry and do not want to continue the friendship I wouldn't even respond...however, if some day you do want to rekindle I agree with Rains120, simply state that you aren't ready to re-commit to the friendship yet and thank her for recognizing you are upset...if she goes off the deep-end about it, then you know you don't need her negative energy....
15 Aug 14 by member: Socolova
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