Divorced after 19 years of marriage ...43 (YIKES)...yo-yo dieter (right now I am on the upswing of the Yo... gained weight...joined a challenge gonna lose 30!) doing Atkins, love to workout (Billy Blanks is my TEACHER), I am a Government Employee so that means I am employed for life unless I kill someone.

I have two cats...

...My Maine Coon Kitty Rex! I call him Rexie...he is such a Cuddlebug and my Baby Black Cat named Minion.

I am living in the Desert of Arizona

I've come to my senses and ended a very TOXIC one-sided 23 year relationship. Think of it this way: The Audience has left...the Show is over. Meaning...the children are grow and trying to do their own things...there was nothing left for me to focus on (other than how unhappy I was).

I am happy and enjoying doing ME for a change.