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Hmmm. I think my salt habit is doing me in. Going to hit the water hard today. Have a luncheon meeting, but I know what to order that's safe.
Everything's harder when you're worn down mentally. We just got the son in Seattle squared away and doing well (thank God!) and now our oldest son and his wife are crosswise and on a slippery slope toward possible divorce. Four precious children to worry about. Somehow we've been dragged into the middle of it, but we don't really see a way we can help. We suggested counseling at least a year ago, but nobody was willing.
So, those of you with spouses, be KIND to each other. Take a moment to look deep into each other's eyes, and hold hands whenever you can.
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Oh wow. Glad one son is doing better. So sorry that the other one is having problems. I hope they can work things out. Hang in there,Hon. I'll be thinking of you and hoping for the best.
09 Sep 08 by member: mbhpro
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It is like that in our family too. First my husband's sister and spouse were heading towards a divorce, then they worked it out, all better. Then my brother had problems, now he's great, getting married, starting a career. Now my husband's other sister is going through a divorce. It never ends. I totally understand. How great that they know you are there for them and do as much as you can.
09 Sep 08 by member: sararay
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Oh the trials and tribulations of family. It really never ends!! Just remember to take care of yourself through it all!
09 Sep 08 by member: Paige E
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bless you and your family! divorce SUCKS! especially when it involves the lil' ones. you may be caught in the middle, but they need you there! set em' straight, grams!! shake em' out of their reverie and tell em' to think what's best for the lil' ones! either break up and get on with it, or fix it, NOW! (how's that for advice? LOL)
09 Sep 08 by member: BadAndee
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slips in, sidles up and *huggggssssss* ya.
10 Sep 08 by member: dave22
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psssst - is the scorpion wall built yet??
11 Sep 08 by member: dave22
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I think the best thing to do is be supportive without taking sides. My MIL is always taking sides..of her sons..so it causes more friction. There is nothing you can really do except wait for them to figure things out. Good luck.
13 Sep 08 by member: caged liberty
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How wonderful that they still need your advice, shoulder to cry on, support. Sometimes it's too much so take care of yourself.
18 Sep 08 by member: juanab
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