restlesshope's Journal, 23 July 2010

I agree with you Restless, totally. Some of what I see said here is appalling and not supportive or helpful at all. However, if good people like you leave, it leaves all the bad ones and then nobody will get the support they need. I know it's frustrating, but I hope you don't let it get to you that much. I'm glad you're around :) 

Restless, don't let the "others" win. Ignore the comments. This is what they want.  

but why???????? why does the entire world feel they have to tear others down?????? why cant we try to make things better????why cant every one find just one thing to do for some one else that has nothing to do with them personaly and just be nice for one day! grandma ada used to say if you cant say something nice then shut you mouth and if ya cant do that then bite your tounge! 

I agree Restless but YOU are the reason we are here. It is really on perhaps 5% like that. We just ignore them. Don't feed there bull and it dies down. Bully's need feed back or they back down! WE love you and don't want to lose you! okay???!!! (((HUG))) Marlene 

Maybe the moderators can warn these people and kick them off this group if they persist!!! 

Those are 'small' people, gf. They have to bring others down to make themselves feel bigger. Sometimes you just have to consider the source and move on, and hope that others have the sense to do the same.  

Restless, please don't go. Yes, it is frustrating that people have to tear others down. Evidently they are so perfect, they don't make mistakes, slip up, or anything like that. We (the majority of us) are here to build up, not tear down. xoxo 

you were my first buddy here, and made me feel welcome and enthusiastic--thats what its all about. dont let those creeps win!!!  

i know there are mostly really wonderful people on here and just by looking at the responces to my post you can see that plainly but just think about it if we are all here to be helped and to help and support others and each one of us tear down just one person and make them quit or give up are we not responsible for their life and the damage we have done to them?my god its like if there was a room full of puppies they would scream in glee to see which puppy they could stomp on first  

Honey don't fee into this any longer okay? Focus on all the good people responding to you today. The good will out weigh the bad in here for sure. YOU are one of them! Love you! 

Restless, those people that have nothing better to do than find and point out other people's faults in order to make them look bad - are themselves very sad and lonely. Isn't it much better to point out someone else's flaws than to take a good look at yourself?  

RH, dear heart, you are a gentle soul and you have personally been on the receiving end of these "people". I used parenthsis, because they don't act like they have any feelings or copmpassion. True people have those feelings and understand that it is so improtant to be kind to others. You are kind and sweet, and stand up for the ones that are being bullied by those monstrous persons. Don't let them get to you. If you leave, they win, it is that simple. And don't feed the trolls. If we ignore them they will die off due to attrition. 

ya know comparing them to trolls is so close... its as if the stand on the bridge and dare people to try to pass and only if they have the special pass word do they allow people to be wish they could find their owne site and leave those that do not wish to be stomped alone 

Again, just ignore them. According to "my friend" a few of them (the worst ones) will be leaving soon enough. One way or another they will be outa there.  

again i just got to say how lucky i feel that i found this group first!you guys rock! gonna go hit the treadmill for a bit to work off my anger lol might as well get somehiing good out of a bad start to my day!love to all of you at ams! 

Now that's the way to show those negative nellies. The best way we can get back at those that aggravate us is by succeeding on our diets and getting a better body than they have ;) Hurray for you for channeling the negative energy into something positive! 

Hang in there restless..it'll all get better. Never let anyone steal your joy or positive outlook!