First off Pam, if the only thing they care about is your physical appearance, then they aren't worth the effort. Been there, done that. The ones who like you for you are the ones to hang on to. aNd the same goes for you...don't turn someone away that isn't your ideal looking man...he may be a frog just waiting for a kiss from his princess! As for the carbs...I know how you feel. Maybe buy some low carb pita bread, and make yourself a toasted cheese sandwich from half of one. Take care of yourself....sometimes life can be really hard! Hang in there!
08 Jan 11 by member: ctlss
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Wow, whoever said that is a real jerk. What about us women who go after chunky guys? It's not all about appearance. People can gain or lose weight over the years, it's a fact of life.
As for not being able to eat milk and toast, you can if you're not on induction. I found this bread that was 7 grams of net carbs a slice and I have two slices for breakfast. I don't miss milk. I don't miss many foods that I used to have, like bagels, potato chips, french fries, etc.
08 Jan 11 by member: rachelelisabeth
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Wow that man is a arse! It's not all about how some one looks on the outside, it's about what's on the inside and that man is one ugly sod! Just for the record you are beautiful inside and out and if he can't see that then it's his loss!
08 Jan 11 by member: Mccmad
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Any guy that would say that to you does not deserve you. And there fore
you shouldn't waste your breath on him. I agree with Leanne. Its his loss
that he can't see past his nose to what beauty really is. Take care of
you....Bren
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What a DORK that man is, Pam. You are a PRIZE - one man is gonna be so fortunate to have you. This guy has bubble gum for brains - and boy won't it be funny to see him after he hits 45+ and starts to lose his hair, and what's left of it turns grey. The spare tire will be around his gut and his arms will get flabby. What will his sex-appeal be like then? Don't even give him a second thought - what a loser!
08 Jan 11 by member: Evie1010
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I agree with evryone....You should date men who like YOU not what you look like. I was 31(42 now) when I fianlly met my husband and he loved me then and he loves me now.. Whenever I am feeling down about my weight he always tell me I love you NOT how much you weigh. The right one will come along and LOVE YOU! Good Luck! ~ Wendy
08 Jan 11 by member: WendyCav
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How positively rude! If this guy is only into appearance, he'd be off my list in short order, no matter how cool I initially thought he might be. Think of this as a "win" for you...you got to scratch him off the list without wasting a lot of time on a relationship with him. Good luck to him and his Barbie doll, wherever he may find her.
08 Jan 11 by member: Sandy701
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I've been in your shoes, was told the same. I blame it on Cosmo and E!. No fun at all, to say the least. Jerks or not, rude or not, we are here to get the self confidence anyway. We are gonna rock it Pam! ~tig
08 Jan 11 by member: iamtig
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Oh my... I can't... I don't really have any words to say but THANKYOU. Thanks every one of you that read my post and took the time to drop some words. I am so excited to be part of this community.
Again, thanks for your support and... as you all agreed.. HE DOESN'T DESERVE ME! Hehehe...
09 Jan 11 by member: pamBA
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