Debbie Cousins's Journal, 14 September 2020

Did not report what I ate yesterdsy or the night before - was dealing with a MAJOR situation at home. Bottom line, the "homeless alcoholic" who has been living with us for the past 2-1/2 years is now OUT. There were only two rules conditions for living with us: (1) he had to smoke outside and (2) NO drinking alcohol. Come to find out, for several weeks (maybe longer) he has been drinking every day. He got drunk night before last and got up in my son's face and called him "worthless piece of $H*T. Thankfully, my son was able to exercise great restraint and not beat him to a pulp.It was a LOT of drama, and the furthest thing from my mind was writing down what I ate. The GOOD NEWS is that my weight was actually down a little bit this morning - probably because I escaped through SLEEPING over 3/4 of the time during that period.
244.0 lb Lost so far: 15.0 lb.    Still to go: 94.0 lb.    Diet followed poorly.
losing 5.3 lb a week

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Well maybe things will be calmer at home. Less drama which means less stress!! Yeah!!!!🍀 
14 Sep 20 by member: SB 428
My prayers are with your family for healing and protection from this episode in life. It is traumatic emotionally and will need mental healing. I have a similar experience my family went through that almost destroyed us. 
14 Sep 20 by member: Cailinlass
So sorry for all the drama, but I can't help but think your life will be far less stressful with him gone. Take care of yourself my friend. 💚💛💜 
14 Sep 20 by member: shirfleur 1
active alcoholics suck!  
14 Sep 20 by member: hollyhalsey
@holly. What actually sucks is being addicted to alcohol. While the person has to assume responsibility for his recovery, he is not responsible for the disease. As a recovering cocaine addict, I thank God for people in my circle that did not throw me away. Let’s keep the gentleman in our prayers and hope he takes the first step in seeking real help. You should be commended for trying to help him. 
14 Sep 20 by member: David Laurence
@ Debbie - Just a thought but you may want to recommend Celebrate Recovery. It’s a Christ Centered, 12 step program. Sorry, I know this is a site dedicated to nutrition, just trying to help... 
14 Sep 20 by member: David Laurence
Gosh Debbie! Good of you and your family for trying to help another human in trouble! Now maybe you can concentrate on your health and nutrition and allow your kind family to support YOU and let the rest of the world take care of itself, for awhile. Take good care, Debbie.  
14 Sep 20 by member: PattiOB
Sounds like you did the right thing and good for your son. He really showed willpower. now you can work on yourself and family. 🙏😷🙏 
14 Sep 20 by member: carol655
So sorry for your stress Debbie! Drama does happen in spite of good intentions! 
14 Sep 20 by member: Texasgranny6
so sorry for this stress & drama. Good thing he is out now and hopefully things can begin to become better for you and your family.  
14 Sep 20 by member: JMA312
it's always hard to find that balance between helping and enabling. sometimes we have to cut things out especially if they become toxic to us. we have a woman like that at church. we've pours into for years. still the same. although it hurts it's the right choice. stay strong. i stand with you.  
15 Sep 20 by member: one.point.O
Nice drop!!! 
15 Sep 20 by member: John10251
I’m sorry you and your family had to deal with that. It’s so hard when you want to help someone who’s not willing to help themselves. My oldest brother is just like the person you speak of and I can so relate. Sending love, light and prayers 
15 Sep 20 by member: Candiesue

     
 

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