Mjgh06's Journal, 17 August 2018

Thank you every one for your encouraging words and posts yesterday. I know I may have overreacted, but I really had to vent at that moment and Facebook was not the place to do so.

We talked last night. No it wasn't just about the coffee. Short version - He has been upset with me for awhile. What it boils down to is that he put us in a financial bind without my knowledge. I do the budgeting, so when we kept having less funds to bills, I found out and tightened the reins. He was upset at me because we had to go to generics, we had to give up smoking, we had to use the free clinic. He was upset at me that I got to go on a vaca with my parents(they paid, not me). He was upset at me that I bought the weight bench ( I saved $10mo for 6 months trying to get one). His anger all came out with the coffee. Why I was able to get what I wanted when we were supposed to be on a budget?

No matter what I said he could not see my pov and I could not see his. I asked for a separation, he went the divorce route believing there was no difference. I explained separation means there is a chance to work things out. He doesn't want anything to change. I told him I can't keep going through this. We went to bed still without a decision made.

178.0 lb Lost so far: 11.6 lb.    Still to go: 53.0 lb.    Diet followed 100%.

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1975 kcal

Activities & Exercise: Resting - 17 hours, Sleeping - 7 hours. more...