I understand! I really try to support actively the people I follow. Although I have really fallen down on the job lately. If I follow too many people, I cant keep up.
09 Feb 21 by member: melissatwa
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This is a actually a very good strategy!
09 Feb 21 by member: Lillzzzy5
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You should definitely not feel guilty I follow 97 people and I comment regularly but on the weekends I take a break so if you don't see me it's because I'm on me time it's ok to be selfish sometimes I just try not to make it an habit you are very kind Shirley and your honesty is so refreshing put your mind at ease I don't blame you a bit sending hugs and love your way ❤️🤗😊🙏🥰
09 Feb 21 by member: jenny3781
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i just don't think you have to explain yourself or feel guilty, Shir, you are such a strong supporter of so many people here. you are the one who inspires! easier said than done, but don't feel guilty. hope you have a great day.
09 Feb 21 by member: br_e_co
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and here I was thinking you just did it for clout. 😉
09 Feb 21 by member: Katsolo
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Shir, my comments were definitely not directed at you or anyone in particular on fs. If you felt you had to defend yourself for some reason, I’m sorry. You weren’t even a part of the convo at that point. I only meant to reply to DP that I knew what she meant. You support people very well and I hope we return the kindness to you, one of the sweetest souls to find on fs. Me? Well I’m the worse supporter around. Just have never been able to keep up with all the posts and only allowed followers just over a year ago. But please know, you have my highest respect and support. 🥰🥰
09 Feb 21 by member: wifey9707
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same here shir. I barely keep up with the ones I follow. and I feel badly because everyone deserves encouragement
09 Feb 21 by member: HeBrewZ
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I only follow the very coolest. 💕😘 That's you! 😉
09 Feb 21 by member: davidsprincess
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I follow a lot of people too and actively keep up with a dozen. Honestly I’m biased to following folks who post pictures of food & occasional nature because that’s what I like to post myself. Lol. We all have our quirks. No need to apologize. I also comment often on people I don’t follow because I like them, I like what they’re posting, and I probably didn’t realize I wasn’t following them. 🌺🌺🌺🌺
09 Feb 21 by member: GibJig
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09 Feb 21 by member: lonniehuffman
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Your comments are always so sweet!
09 Feb 21 by member: larilyn
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I hope no one feels pressured! That's counterproductive! 😉 Even just hearing from someone every now and again makes my day. But I do feel sad when people dissappear completely. I like how some who've met their goal update once a month. When you start making alot of friends it is hard to keep up. So I'll just check every now and then as I can if I haven't seen anything from someone in awhile. Also I see new posts when I log, so I tend to respond to those most.
09 Feb 21 by member: bearnoggin
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Wifey, you most definitely did not put me on the defensive, you're always kind and thoughtful and I greatly appreciate your comments. 💛
09 Feb 21 by member: shirfleur 1
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Oh Shir, I’m so relieved. 💖💖💖💖 Thank you for letting me know. I wouldn’t hurt you or anyone intentionally. xo
09 Feb 21 by member: wifey9707
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I feel a little 'put out' when folks don't comment on my journal BUT it is not ALL about ME here. We are here to help each other and take care of ourselves. I don't feel pressured or 'unloved' but do like to hear from others occasionally. But there is just so much we can do. AND at least being here is a big step to helping ourselves & others :-)
09 Feb 21 by member: JMA312
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My sentiments exactly, Shirfleur 1. :)
09 Feb 21 by member: Slow Meta
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JMA312- you could consider not being private except to followers and then everyone would be able to comment. Otherwise you have to wait for your followers to see your posts. Just a thought.
09 Feb 21 by member: davidsprincess
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09 Feb 21 by member: Danana
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Just keep doing you! I have problems keeping up myself. 🤗
09 Feb 21 by member: oceanladyjulia
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Good point DP! I was going to post on JMA312's page and say that they will get a ton of posts now because we don't want anyone to feel that way!!! But, I can't because they're profile is private.
09 Feb 21 by member: bearnoggin
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