I'm 53, widowed a year ago. After my husband had a massive stroke and I got a big promotion at work, I gave up on nutrition and just ate comfort food. I've gained something like 80 lbs. in the past several years, and although I love riding my bike, I don't otherwise get much exercise. I have been fooling myself for years that I don't really look THAT bad ... Blechh. I do. I want to wear cute clothes, not sack dresses!