abbadabba's Journal, 04 August 2009

I am so sorry you are experiencing this dilemma. Many of us - like myself - here at Fat Secret are not in a position to give advice just friendly support for whatever healthy strategies you practice to be healthy. Like many predicaments - this issue is probably more monumental than some of the things we "chat" about here at FS. However -there might be other members who have gone through similar circumstances who could help you. I really hope so! Sincerely. Perhaps a separate forum topic might yield some helpful suggestions. This particular problem seems appropriate for Fat Secret because these are the times that cause us to slip into unhealthy ways of living. Good luck with everything! God bless you and yours.  

I feel that if I were in your position, I would break the stalemate. He obviously said that for a reason and it isn't fair for you to have to sit there and wonder whether he is going to be home when you get back from the store every day. I think a serious conversation is to be had and a decision to be made. Good luck to you ... 

This isn't something I can give advice on, but know that whatever decision you make trust it. Trust yourself that you know what you want and you know what's best for you. Be blessed. 

You are the one who has to make that decision. But I guess I would have to ask you to ask yourself if you are happy with the way it is and then go from there. I wish you all the best with whatever direction you take. And I hope this is not affecting you taking care of you. ((hugs)) 

Thank you, Poet-in-motion - you are right, I should set up a forum. Hopefully there is someone who has gotten through this sort of thing! Also, mms0823 and Shia34 - you both hit the nail on the head - I don't have to wait for him to make the next move, I can make my own statements right back! 

Thank you for the hugs, WECANDOTHIS - good question for me too! I think this might explain the up and down for the past month, too. 

Good luck Sweetie! I will be saying a special prayer for you and yours. Really. You deserve to be happy.