Kim4dogNite's Journal, 19 August 2018

Yesterday a member sent me a friend request on Facebook which I thought was harmless enough. Immediately he started pming me. I thought things were off, and I was right. He quickly sent me a photo of himself sitting in a chair. It was more than obvious that he was naked although he did not include his, ya know, thingamagig. I blocked him and deleted his messages completely grossed out. This all happened in a matter of 5 minutes.

Today his comments on my page are gone and it looks like he is no longer a member.

I learned a HUGE lesson.

Please be careful. Xo

Diet Calendar Entry for 19 August 2018:
448 kcal Fat: 36.92g | Prot: 24.19g | Carb: 5.05g.   Breakfast: Heavy Cream, Coffee. Lunch: Wendy's Tomato (1 Slice), Marie's Premium Super Blue Cheese Dressing, Trader Joe's Boneless Beef New York Strip Steak, Iceberg Lettuce (Includes Crisphead Types), Sweet Onions. more...

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Oh I’m so sorry that happened! 😔 looks like you were just trying to be nice. But yes definitely keep your guard up there’s too many weirdos on the internet. You can never be too careful & sadly some people really confuse your generosity or kindness with flirting. Limit the information you share online, I learned this the hard way @ 14... glad you deleted that member. Stay safe 🌸 
19 Aug 18 by member: NAYELISIZZLES
Yuk and yikes!!! Glad it didn't turn into a huge problem.  
19 Aug 18 by member: Becc@
ICK. Ty for the reminder. Sorry that happened. 
19 Aug 18 by member: jengetfit123
That’s horrible 🤦🏻‍♀️ 
19 Aug 18 by member: Kyykla
Holy crap! Glad you were able to get rid of the perv! 
19 Aug 18 by member: nikeit
yes I am glad he is gone too! some people are just too weird.  
19 Aug 18 by member: baskington
Good advice, sorry this happened, you handled it well. 
19 Aug 18 by member: broncomba
Let me guess. He still is a member but suddenly gone private and changed his photo to a FS predefined. I was about to do a comment related to him for another reason. But i read your message (and got shocked). There is no meaning any more. Are you sure that all his comments on your (early) journals are gone ? 
19 Aug 18 by member: Tassos67
@Tasso, they are gone. He had invited people to like his fb page in the journal. I guess around the same time sent me a request. When I registered here I made the gigantic error of using my full name. I tried to change it months ago. No luck. As far as I can see he has left, BUT, someone that creepy is most likely lurking. 
19 Aug 18 by member: Kim4dogNite
FB invitation. Still exist (8/18). It is a pity that people of my age have such a behavior.  
19 Aug 18 by member: Tassos67
Interesting. He must have me blocked on here. I am going to try and delete the entire journal. What a POS. 
19 Aug 18 by member: Kim4dogNite
I am an idiot! Found it. Deleted his comments. 
19 Aug 18 by member: Kim4dogNite
good, I miss things too. still figuring out and the in's and outs here and on facebook 
19 Aug 18 by member: baskington
@baskington, ya know I was diagnosed with Neuropathy. I am not sure that is correct. Sometimes I think I have Fibro because of my foggy head.  
19 Aug 18 by member: Kim4dogNite
have you ever taken choline?? it improves the brains pathways. My physical therapist suggested it for me. he was suprised when I showed him what I got as it was the best formulation for the brain. I researched before I bought as I did not want to just get a cheap maybe not as effective type. mine is alpa-gpc, l-alpha-glycerylphosphoryl choline. my diet makes the biggest change but I do think this may help. If you have brain fog, I would suggest you track your symptoms, bet some days you feel clearer than others, go back and look at what you ate. my brain fog can hit almost immediately to within an hour. and a lot of times it is something you have all the time.  
19 Aug 18 by member: baskington
What a creep! Now I’m curious as to who it was lol. Off to go check journals ;).  
19 Aug 18 by member: peeperjj
O. M. G. ! How sick. Very unnerving but glad ability to block works and glad he left these premises! At least I hope he did, the F’ing perv! Sorry that happened to you.  
19 Aug 18 by member: Em GI
I knew something wasn’t right with that guy, and when he posted a pic recently it confirmed that fact...could see it in his eyes. You bet he’s lurking, perv POS! 
19 Aug 18 by member: Em GI
I had a strange feeling something like that was going to happen to me as well. A week ago someone private messaged me here on FS with a compliment that I didn't look 66 years old. I responded with a thank you and after that I received a message if I would be interested in texting with him on Kik messenger. I never heard of that and responded that I wasn't comfortable doing so. He sent me a private message almost everyday after that and again mentioned the Kik app. I finally replied and said I was curious to know why he wanted to text with me; he answered "no motive". But in one message to him I mentioned my "husband" and I blah blah blah.....Never heard from him again. After reading this about your experience I feel so icky that I was going back and forth with him as much as I did. 😬 
19 Aug 18 by member: elsie chag
I know Elise. I felt icky too. I should have trusted my gut immediately. I sent the administrators a message on this. Does this group have mods? 
19 Aug 18 by member: Kim4dogNite

     
 

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