blessed0989's Journal, 21 March 2024

You’re gorgeous! 😍😘 glad you felt good about yourself🥰 

And you ARE good enough! 

You’re both gorgeous and I love those dresses. 

The negative self-talk is the worst. Someday when you're older you'll look back and think, what the heck was I talking about!! Enjoy being so beautiful and Young 💕 

You're beautiful! 

you both look fabulous 

YOU ARE BEAUTIFUL....Please DO NOT let the media via magazines, news paper ads, tv shows, internet make you feel like you are not BEAUTIFUL. WE have been manipulated via all of those to control our minds and make us feel "not worthy". WE ARE ALL WORTHY...WE ARE ALL BEAUTIFUL. When you look in the mirror remind yourself that your beauty comes from your parents, grand parents, great grandparents and all your ancestors. They had very hard times, had good times, had times they did not feel "beautiful" BUT THEY WERE...they provide life for you to LIVE freely. This includes freeing your mind from all the brain washing of us not being "beautiful" or "worthy". When you have those moments that you dont feel good about your looks...THINK ABOUT YOUR ANCESTORS AND BE PROUD THAT YOU HAVE BEEN GIVEN LIFE TO EXPLORE & BE LOVED ON PLANET EARTH. LIVE YOUR LIFE WITH A FREE MINDSET. SET YOUR MIND FREE...BELIEVE IN YOURSELF...BELIEVE THAT YOU ARE BEAUTIFUL (BECAUSE YOU ARE), BELIEVE THAT YOU CAN ACCOMPLISH ANYTHING AND EVERYTHING YOU SET YOUR MIND TO (BECAUSE YOU CAN!). 🌷💚🌷 

I know just what you mean. I'm v ugly sometimes but I can be hot when I need to be. 😆 lol. You look gorgeous!  

Thank yewwwww purple ash Diana Madeline and and katsolo! 🥹 Tcbee you are right because I actually do that now 😩 I am 35 and I look back at my pictures from 3-4-5-10 years ago when I felt not good enough not thin enough not pretty enough and now am like darn I wish I looked like that now 😭 Jjbbee thank you for the encouragement logically I know you are correct and I mentally coach myself and say you are alive you are blessed you are beautifully and wonderfully made but then emotionally it’s hard not to let those lies creep in and compare . I do not have any social media for that reason but in todays day and age it doesn’t quite stop you from seeing all the “perfection” and success and wonder why you still can’t seem to hit your goal  

Gorgeous! 😍I know the feeling though. 

Haha dp my sisssssssss 😍 😍 you ARE beautiful with sexy all mixed in together!!! But as someone who gets told “you’re beautiful “ by other people I know what you are feeling . It’s nice other people see it but DANG can I just look in the mirror 5 days out of 7 and feel sexy myself please 😩 😅  

Thanks shake those lbs!!! My last comment applies to you as well 😘  

Your pretty and not ugly at all! 

you look great! it's easy to get Into our own heads we are always far more critical of ourselves 

I used to feel that way when I was much younger and much lighter, (in fact, I was anorexic). Now I want to kick the younger me 'what was I thinking'?! But with age comes wisdom and a hefty amount of Give a F-ness. You will not only master your negative self speak you will master the GAF too! You look fab, glad to hear you are having a good reflection! 

Your pretty, an old grandpa who knows says so... 

You look great!!! But I get what you are saying, there are plenty of times I look in the mirror and still see the 304 pound version of me! When this happens I think back to how I felt at that weight and how much better I physically feel now and it definitely helps put things in perspective. Keep up the good work! 👍🏻😊 

You are beautiful. But over time, external beauty fades, believe me, I know. The real beauty, the beauty that increases over time, is your inner beauty, and that beauty will always shine through.