irishvanessa's Journal, 21 April 2018

My lover, best friend and husband died on Tuesday night. He had always watched me log onto My Fat Secret in the mornings, lying next to me in bed. I use to read him peoples posts and share with him what was happening on the the group. He is no longer by my side and this weight loss journey will continue in memory of him. I have to go through the process of mourning him and I find it hard to go back to places where we shared moments together. My fat secret was one of them but I have made it over that hurdle this morning by logging in and weighing myself. I willl be back many more times. I miss you bubs.
178.6 lb Lost so far: 23.6 lb.    Still to go: 13.2 lb.    Diet followed reasonably well.
losing 0.6 lb a week

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So sorry for your loss, sending love and light your way xxx 
21 Apr 18 by member: Jules0077
Sorry for your loss! May you find comfort and peace xxx 
22 Apr 18 by member: Annelizej40
dearest Irishvanessa I also lost my husband seven months ago. The loss is indescribable to anyone who has not experienced this pain. I pray that you will over time find peace and acceptance. I am sending a special prayer to you and lots of love. 
22 Apr 18 by member: blxdx
So sorry for your loss xxx 
22 Apr 18 by member: Nikina70
I'm so sorry for your devastating loss. We cant fill his place but as your FS friends we're here waiting for you to log on.  
22 Apr 18 by member: Tabetha2015
Sincerest condolences we are all here to support you. 
22 Apr 18 by member: Zainabx
Sorry for your loss.  
22 Apr 18 by member: Johann Early
thinking of you in this sad time.... 
22 Apr 18 by member: Cheron@1
wow .. so sorry for ur loss u r extremely brave... sending u prayers n love💙 
22 Apr 18 by member: sallywu
Words I don't have to rightly express my sympathy, except to say how sorry I am for your great loss. I pray that God will comfort you and take your heartache away. Big (((((hug))))) from me. 
22 Apr 18 by member: Marlene Cooke-Tonnesen
So sorry for your loss.  
22 Apr 18 by member: ksch15
Sorry for your loss and take care of your beautiful self 
22 Apr 18 by member: Nonkululeko1980
Sending you light en peace 
22 Apr 18 by member: Dimakie
Sorry 
22 Apr 18 by member: morneverster
Ncoooh sorry for your loss 
22 Apr 18 by member: nomthandazo.mdunge
deepest condolences go out to you and your family  
22 Apr 18 by member: Nkulz
Very sorry for ur loss, may you find comfort in the lord during this time (((((hug))) 
22 Apr 18 by member: drbaca9
So sorry for your loss. 
23 Apr 18 by member: Bronwynnbotha
So sorry for your loss <3  
23 Apr 18 by member: Caro_S_Farrell
So sorry for your loss, I hope you find peace in the memories you created together. It is not an easy journey but the pain does become less acute with time. 
23 Apr 18 by member: Mave03

     
 

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