SelinaMinus60's Journal, 13 January 2010

Feeling a lot more positive and the scale is showing it :)
Even though i drank a ton of alcohol on monday (vodka and monster) I have been eating healthy and drinking lots of water. 3lbs down just need to keep these 3 off and lose a further 2 this month to keep to my goal doesn't seem quite so daunting now.

There has been even more snow which im trying not to get too daunted about but at the moment it is very very hard.

also i have a bit of a dilemma a really good friend of mine has just asked to borrow some money and i can't really afford it but i know she has no one else to ask and would never ask unless it was important. i dont feel like i can say no to her :/

5 things;

1. making friends with an ex
2. being a student and not having to have a proper job
3. being down 3lbs
4. getting even closer to my monthly goal and therefore my life goal
5. having all of my FS buddies on hand to help :)

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Keep up the good work! As for the money... sometimes you just can't do it. Don't put yourself in a bind to help out a friend, it will make things even harder, then you may get unmotivated again.  
13 Jan 10 by member: Starladesiree
Rule of thumb... never loan out money you expect to see back. I only "loan" out money when I know I can afford to lose it completely, because that's usually what ends up happening. If you can't afford to just give it as a gift, you can't afford to loan it. 
13 Jan 10 by member: Divided By Zero
you're right i spoke to her and she tottally understood which is nice she also gave me a nice suprise by telling me she's found me a kitten!!!!! ( i have been looking for one for a while and shes found a little grey one which will be ready in feb/march which is v exciting!!) 
13 Jan 10 by member: SelinaMinus60
Glad your friend understood. I go by /0's rule of thumb. If I can't afford to say goodbye to the money forever, I don't loan it. Glad you are feeling more positive! 
13 Jan 10 by member: amryk

     
 

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