zuzus.petals's Journal, 07 January 2024

After the holidays I really need to get back on track. I’m way over eating… a comfort thing for me. Still in the complicated mess with my husband. I filed for divorce but came to the realization that going through the divorce was more stressful than just staying with this as he wasn’t going to make it easy (he didn’t want to divorce). Odd thing is we don’t fight, get along fine as long as I don’t talk about my feelings, our relationship or the other woman 😂😂. So no real communication. But at our age it would be a financial mess to divorce and it’s hard for me to turn my back on him. I just need to stop with this comfort eating. Get back on track. Have my health and happiness a priority. Find my joy when and where I can and be grateful for all the wonderful people in my life. Life is good and time is getting shorter. I hope everyone will have a happy and healthy 2024!

Diet Calendar Entry for 07 January 2024:
1647 kcal Activities & Exercise: Apple Health - 24 hours. more...

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You do you and be happy, healthy and peaceful. 💟 
07 Jan 24 by member: Laurie62707
Thank you Laurie and Novariche. I’m just sort of stumbling through this, trying to keep my head in a good space. Need to focus on being healthy and happy! Thank you for the support and advice. ❤️ 
07 Jan 24 by member: zuzus.petals
And yes it is a wonderful life! 
07 Jan 24 by member: zuzus.petals
You do you. I just think it’s important to choose yourself. The anxiety that can come when you’re in a relationship with someone who doesn’t choose you first or doesn’t reciprocate the love and appreciation you give them is less than the stress and hassle of divorce. I don’t know the details and I’m not one to give unsolicited advice but just thought to share a point of view based on experience since anxiety can be a setback for your weight loss and overall health goals. It’s important to put yourself first. Good luck in this difficult time. 
08 Jan 24 by member: nadous
*meant is more not less * 
08 Jan 24 by member: nadous
💙💙💙 
08 Jan 24 by member: unity1234
Good luck, I know many people in your position. 
08 Jan 24 by member: abbadabba
He made his choices. This honestly sounds like something that can turn dangerous real quick. Please be careful. You shouldn’t have to “walk on eggshells” around anyone. 
08 Jan 24 by member: buttercup30
You deserve a faithful relationship and the freedom to share your feelings. I’m saying prayers for you and sending you love and support. ❤️😊 
08 Jan 24 by member: shanekwa
Have you seen the movie Maestro about Leonard Bernstein and his relationship with his wife and his other partners. Very curious 🧐I watched it last night on Netflix. I do not mean any disrespect here, only pointing out another unusual situation in the societal landscape. 😳 
08 Jan 24 by member: Sarah1950
I’m Praying that you may find peace in the midst of the storms and my your heart be protected from anything that is unlike God. Beautiful Woman know that “U” are More than Enough and your True Worth cannot even be measured.💃🏿💯❤️‍🩹💟 
08 Jan 24 by member: Alindsey83t
Time IS getting shorter for us all. If you are sharing your heart with someone that gives his to someone else, your heartbreak and stress will not healed with food or staying in the relationship. You should both see a counselor and get domestic real help. Peace to you this new year. 
08 Jan 24 by member: 813smp

     
 

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