I hope the surgery wasn't too serious and you feel better soon. Take it easy if you need to. I didn't walk for at least a week after I had my gall bladder removed.
05 Feb 23 by member: Fritzy 22
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Thanks Fritzy. I’m taking your advice!
05 Feb 23 by member: zuzus.petals
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💝 I’m sorry you’re having to deal with all this and the surgery recovery. I agree about taking it easy and hope you feel better soon.
05 Feb 23 by member: moko 13
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I wish you a successful and speedy recovery from your surgery.
As far as your spouse cheating, that's a bad situation. I was through that with my ex wife. She cheated on me, I forgave her. She cheated again, I forgave her. The third time, I left. I didn't deserve to be treated like that. I'm not ugly and after dating for 7 years, I found a wonderful, kind, and loving woman. We will be married for 18 years soon and we're both really happy.
What I'm trying to say is, you don't deserve to be treated that way. You as a person deserve better. As long as you settle for less, he will continue to take advantage of you.
05 Feb 23 by member: PA-gary
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Speedy and comfortable recovery.
05 Feb 23 by member: Draglist
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Thanks Snowleopard. You are right. It’s just that it’s scary at my age to think about being on my own after having been with him for almost 40 years. Hopefully these next few weeks I will heal and get strong in more than just the physical sense. But I still believe life is wonderful and there’s a whole world out there for me to explore. I just have to keep on laughing and moving forward.
06 Feb 23 by member: zuzus.petals
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PAgary you give me hope. So happy you found someone who treats you well. 😊
06 Feb 23 by member: zuzus.petals
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well wishes for a speedy recovery!
06 Feb 23 by member: kaylinrenee
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06 Feb 23 by member: 3dkids2
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Good luck to you for a speedy recovery for your surgery and your heart. The reason we stay is rooted in fear but imagine that an amazing life is waiting for you without a partner that violates your trust and loyalty. I never thought I would marry again after a 24 year marriage and taking care of a man. I am now happily married 3 years with my husband 6 years. Living my best life and have the nicest , most attentive caring loving husband ( plus he cooks and cleans) we are truly blessed.
Good luck to you.
06 Feb 23 by member: rosefrowd
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Hoping you recover quickly and also get some peace!💜🙏
06 Feb 23 by member: Diana 1234
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Hope you get well soon. I think the Holidays are rough on everyone and adding marital problems just add to it.
It’s a decision that you have to make because it affects more people than just the two of you. Children, grandchildren and both sides of the family lose but being miserable the rest of your life isn’t worth it. At 62 I asked my wife of 30 years to go through some counseling to help our marriage or we should we just move on. She didn’t want to so she told me to get a lawyer. We split as friends and two years after we split she found out she had cancer and passed away a year later. Divorce isn’t easy and you must be strong and independent to make good decisions.
08 Jan 24 by member: Postalfarmer
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