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Not a good day today - emotions all over the map. I am so worried about my son who lives a long ways away. There was some trouble at his house (our home actually but he lives there) and the police were called. There was a bad fight there and vandalism and a neighbor called this a.m. to give us the details. She made my son sound horrible. He says she is wrong and told me his version. RCMP don't have more to add yet cause they are still investigating. I want to believe my son more than anything but he has always picked the "wrong crowd" to hang with and isn't forthcoming with his part in anything. (basically nothing is ever his fault). Since we are so far away there really isn't much we can do...and he gets mad at us for asking questions - gets defensive and then hangs up. Idk...I'm so sad and worried. No energy...just can't seem to accomplish anything today.....
Diet Calendar Entry for 30 August 2008:
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1088 kcal
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Fat: 37.84g | Prot: 53.41g | Carb: 142.39g.
Breakfast: I Can't Believe It's Not Butter LIGHT, egg poached, weight watchers bagel, light strawberry cream cheese. Lunch: Chicken Breast slices, miracle whip, weight watchers wrap, pickle slice, tomato slices, kraft cheese slice. Dinner: blue bonnet, peas canned, Red Potatoes (Flesh and Skin) . Snacks/Other: jelly beans, chocolate macaroons. more...
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I'm sorry to hear of your troubles I will pray for you. Hang in there. Sometimes all we can do for our children is love them.
30 Aug 08 by member: angie1973
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Although I would like to think my kids are perfect, I know that regardless of the way they are raised, at some point they make their own decisions and those will not always be the right ones. Love him and pray for him. I will do the same for you both.
31 Aug 08 by member: bethru
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I went through the same types of things when my daughter and son were still at home (mostly my daughter) ~ we certainly do not want to believe that our own children would resort to such actions. Having been there (and lived through it), things will get better but there's no fooling here ~ you will have to ride out the waves and view things with an open mind.
Physically, it will take its toll on you so you must take care of yourself. At one point when my daughter ran away from home for 5 months I lost 25 lb (to be quickly gained back when she returned. Be sure to eat properly and find someone to talk to about your feelings. Keep in touch because I will be thinking about you.
31 Aug 08 by member: Deborah0818
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Thank you everyone for your kind thoughts. We had a lot of trouble with our son starting at age 15- ish and no one would help us the way we needed it. We ran the gammut to try and get help for him and our family. I was hoping that the move to NS - staying in our house, working at a daily job...getting away from the crowd he was with would be a great new beginning for him. It was...for awhile, but seems he is right back in it so to speak. I just wish that when we talk to him and try to find out what happened, etc...that he wouldn't get so defensive with us...then he doesn't want to talk anymore and we all hang up with him being mad. It's hard on us - we just want to know that he is going to be ok. The RCMP are involved this time but I really think my son is not deeply invovled as a nosy neighbor believes. Unfortunaley he is an adult and it happened at his residence and someone got badly hurt - so he is responsible to some degree...and he has had problems with police before...soo.....idk...I'm all over the place here. Just thanks..for listening (??!!) - I appreciate knowing that some wonderful people are here for me!
31 Aug 08 by member: KimberleyAnn
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hey,my husband was a lot like your son when he was younger.even going as far as to break into a gun store and steal then run from the cops.everything you can imagine he has been there and done it. several years,and jail trips later he is now serving God in our church as a deacon,and other things.don't give up hope on him-okay? God can work miracles,they are actually His favorite-we just have to sit back and let Him work.sometimes that's the hardest thing to do,but He likes to work when nothing else will. we are all definitely here to listen.hang in there
31 Aug 08 by member: cparker
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