djsingh's Journal, 17 January 2020

Today, I was told something shocking about a coworker. There's a beautiful young lady working here..

I was a bit annoyed when her husband (who works in another department) was hovering around her cubicle all day yesterday.. I never would tolerate something like that.. but it bothered me. So I went to her and asked what's that all about..

She replied, "oh nothing. He is just protective of me."

She was out today, and I overheard a couple of other women here talking about this young lady.. How they don't understand how she's with that guy. So, of course, I mentioned this incident.

To my surprise, they told me something that made my skin boil.

This girl is a size 2/4. 5'6. same height as me.. probably around 120 lbs.

Her husband controls what she eats, and he took her out on a "date" and told her she can't eat more than 700 calories.

We had a pizza party here at work yesterday (I was proud i didn't touch the pizza. i smelled it, though lol) And she was afraid to get a slice for herself, in case her husband saw her getting a slice. She asked one of the girls to get her a slice.

WOW, I just don't get it.

SERIOUSLY>!?!??! HOW DOUCHEBAGGY CAN SOMEONE GET?!
212.1 lb Lost so far: 23.9 lb.    Still to go: 86.1 lb.    Diet followed reasonably well.

Diet Calendar Entry for 17 January 2020:
1009 kcal Fat: 51.38g | Prot: 62.80g | Carb: 81.55g.   Breakfast: Coffee, Splenda No Calorie Sweetener Packets, Boiled Egg. Lunch: London Pub Malt Vinegar, Real Sweet Vidalia Onion, Calavo Avocado, Cucumber (Peeled), Celery, Lettuce, Tomatoes, Boiled Egg. Dinner: Alberts Hot Sauce, Taco Bueno Pico de Gallo, Culinary Circle Shredded Three Cheese Blend, Lettuce, Curly's Sauceless Roasted Pulled Chicken, Lettuce, Guacamole. Snacks/Other: Kellogg's Special K Red Berries, Mentos Gum, Almonds, Boiled Egg. more...
losing 7.7 lb a week

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Wow yuck. Sounds like trouble that.  
17 Jan 20 by member: liv001
That's her problem. But, a friend of mine lost her husband several months ago. She was only allowed two meals a day and she had to weigh in front of him each day. She's never looked better or been happier in her life. Just saying, her problem. 
17 Jan 20 by member: Erquiaga
I know it’s her problem but that’s hard to ignore 
17 Jan 20 by member: djsingh
What Erquiaga said 👌🏼 
17 Jan 20 by member: rosio19
djsingh, unless she's willing to make her own decisions, there's really nothing you can do for her. 
17 Jan 20 by member: Erquiaga
I’d take this with a grain of salt. Second hand info. Beware of office gossip, I’m sure parts of this was twisted. And those talking about her, are likely talking about you. Careful! Just sayin! 
17 Jan 20 by member: wifey9707
as douchebaggy as she lets him. she can stop it at any time. her choice 
17 Jan 20 by member: JoyHarkey
The only thing that matters in that whole elaborate story in this - "I DIDN'T TOUCH THE PIZZA." Nice work. Let's go! #grindtime 
17 Jan 20 by member: jimmiepop
Haha thanks jimmiepop! 
18 Jan 20 by member: djsingh
😢 
18 Jan 20 by member: Skinny Dreams 31
How sad that she feels a need to stay with him. 
18 Jan 20 by member: Kenna Morton
Has anyone reported alexjordan121 for soliciting? 
18 Jan 20 by member: Kenna Morton
He’s everywhere. Driving me nuts!!  
18 Jan 20 by member: wifey9707
Sad. 
18 Jan 20 by member: FullaBella
Hopefully she will at some point realize this is not normal behavior. If he is controlling her food, he is likely controlling her via phone tracking (i.e. snapchat etc) and various other aspects of her life. My 19 y/o daughter's friend was dating a guy like this for 3 years before she FINALLY broke up. She knew it was not a healthy relationship, and was so embarrassed that she hid it from everyone except for her best friends (who were urging her to break up for years). I wish this woman the best. Hopefully she has some friends to confide in - another aspect of this kind of control is to close down all friendships.  
18 Jan 20 by member: jazzylittleone
Very sad. Hopefully one day she’ll gain the strength to tell him to bugger off.  
23 Feb 20 by member: liliana2506

     
 

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