Sugartits69's Journal, 14 April 2018

We all have our weaknesses. For some, it's always picking that "wrong" person to date, not having control over what or how much one eats, and many other weaknesses. Mine is I can't keep my mouth shut when I see social injustice. Case in point, a woman on FS shared that she had all she could do to not whip her children for getting muddy. Her words. She claimed that she prayed to her god and he helped her. Then, when I called her out on it, it devolved into everyone saying what I said was uncalled for. Fine. You can continue to believe that hitting children is ok, but you will always be wrong. We don't use bloodletting anymore, because it's wrong. We don't allow husbands to spank their wives anymore, because it's wrong. You see my point? You aren't even allowed to strike your pets! Discipline your children. The word means to teach or instruct, not to inflict pain. It shows weakness on your part as a human being to have no other method of handling a situation that to use violence. As much as I'd like to strike another adult who isn't "getting it" it is wrong. Why do you think it is ok to strike a child? Don't be lazy. Find more effective ways to communicate right from wrong to your children. You would never hit a friend's child. Treat your own just as well. I will not apologize for what I said. I will continue to advocate for children until my last breath.

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It sounded like hyperbole to me, as she described a raw, unbidden impulse she used her conscious mind to control and not act upon. She then used her adult words to park the rest of her frustration safely on the virtual page here. Not everyone who has ever said he or she could strangle someone is actually a prospective murderer either.....  
14 Apr 18 by member: kpwcalories
Not seeing what any of this has to do with a weight loss and fitness app. Everyone has opinions just like everyone has....well, I’m sure you know the rest. 
14 Apr 18 by member: Kyah Renee
I remember the post. I took it a very different way. I never thought that she would have hit her children, to me it was a figure of speech. People say things all the time when venting frustration that they would never act upon.  
14 Apr 18 by member: Charlotte_15
It's terrific that so many of you seem to know her well enough to know that she was joking. I do not. I don't find it funny to joke about rape, murder, incest, pedophilia, or hitting children. I don't think it's funny to joke about beating animals. 
14 Apr 18 by member: Sugartits69
And some may find your username offensive, demeaning to the female gender, and inappropriate on a website sometimes frequented by children and the occasional school health class full of minors. But hey, free speech, within the bounds of community standards.  
14 Apr 18 by member: kpwcalories
I second that Kpwcalories as I am offended! 
14 Apr 18 by member: Charlotte_15
Bam! What Kpwcalories said! I think it's really inappropriate for you, "sugar titties sixty nine" (wtf kinda porn username is that!??) to give MillaLite an unfair and uncharitable interpretation of what was obviously posted in jest.  
14 Apr 18 by member: @philrmcknight
Logged on thought I was on the wrong site....time for a coffee will come back later  
14 Apr 18 by member: skinnyminny54
😂 virtual high five to skinnyminny 
14 Apr 18 by member: Vmartens14
Okay, I've seen enough in the past few days and I am calling BullSh** to it.....Enough is enough ---the context in which the comment was made the other day has been ridiculously and grossly distorted, twisted, misinterpreted, and over blown. ...I've seen it happen on this app more than once in the short amount of time I've been in the community and I find it absolutely disgusting. There were no crimes committed and for anyone to imply that there was should take a hard look in the mirror at themselves ---Plan and simple (You shouldn't have openly accused someone of such things if you had no knowledge of these individuals prior). In short, it made you look like an GIANT A** !!!! It is reprehensible to accuse persons of such atrocities. No one among this community has ever spoke of or would ever condone such behavior to which you are referring to begin with....I personally think you should have your head examined for thinking this to begin with!!!! Perhaps it is a feeling of some sort of sick/perverse/and subverted guilt you possess. For you to have made yet another post referring to the monstrous crimes you speak of is just plain awful and personally turns my stomach to think you would do something like this. For you however, I have something to say ----> Read and learn ----Biblical verses to which I refer speak of sparing the rod and corrupting the child more or less. Read them, learn them, then speak on an educational basis. Proverbs 29:14/Proverbs 22:6,15/Proverbs 23:13.14/Proverbs 13:24/ there are many many more from which this came----It's called the "Bible"/Word of God/Disciples Teachings/ and more.......I am typically very supportive of all persons within this community and will defend persons when deemed appropriate, assuming there is not DRAMA or some misaligned hatred toward persons......But this is way out of hand ----There are many good apps you can use for social interaction, calorie counting, fitness, food tracking. If you do not agree with persons on this app - perhaps another will better suite your needs or desires. This app is designed for adults - those persons with enough common sense to use the app for its intended purpose and not to create a situation where there is unwanted social bullying, hazing, or other behavior. I apologize should this offend any persons, and I apologize if any persons who may have had a traumatic event happen to them in their lives in which suppressed feelings emerge from time to time, as no one should have to live or go through such events. If anyone is a victim, then professional help to recover and adapt in order to survive in life should be sought..... Truth be known evil lurks in this world---Most persons with intellect know this---however there are many which do not as well and or choose to ignore it !!!! So in closing, I think it is best to remove your recent post, avoid further discussion on something that did not occur and make amends to everyone who has had to tolerate it the past few days! If not ----we wish you well ---move on, go somewhere else, start anew !!!! These are the choices----you've made the bed - now you have to lye in it----- Hopefully all persons can move past this and it is with sincere faith you can too. Thanks for all who have read and listened! God Bless you all !!! and Good luck on your journeys to self discovery. Lets Just Get Along !!!!!!!!  
14 Apr 18 by member: wright2018
in my opinion I think 10 minutes in the corner for a little kid it's like 10 hours just keep doing that uh they will get around to it 
14 Apr 18 by member: mary1154
@millalite I wouldn’t even respond to “sugartits69”. Not only does she seem desperate for attention, clearly something wrong upstairs with a name like that😂 As a mom, definitely understand the hard days! Venting is all us moms have most of the time❤️ 
14 Apr 18 by member: queenoftheabyss
*sigh*....aaaand here we go...Sugartits doubles down on the absurdity...But, I suppose with every Cobb community you find those who have visceral knee-jerk reactions to anything they find remotely objectionable to the point they happily engage in starting drama and potentially contribute to the defamation of character of someone they don't know... 
14 Apr 18 by member: MalkinLeNeferet

     
 

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