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At some point there is a break through in which you realize that you are who you are. It doesn't matter if your heavy or thin, as long as you are healthy physically, mentally and emotionally. Everyone at one time or another strives to achieve that perfect body, at the perfect weight.. wanting that perfection. BUT who determines that perfection, is it you, or those around you, or the media??? Who???
Take a good look in the mirror! Look at the overal reflection, the positive things! Look how incredible you look! Perhaps a good hair day, or that new outfit you bought makes you feel hot and desirable. These are things that I am in constant battle with...
When I looked in the mirror this morning I said to myself, "you will never, ever be super skinny! Face it Pam you got curves that are not created by fat alone, but by your bone structure!" So embrace the fact that even when you feel at your worse, someone will always think that your pretty, cute or if your lucky hot.
My lesson today is for me to accept me... and to stop the insane comparison to others.
Have a good day... May everyone find one thing to be joyful about...
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