So sorry you have had some bad interactions here on FatSecret, but SO glad you are moving past them and continuing to participate! For the most part, I find people to be caring and encouraging. I've had an occasional person try to "rain on my parade," but, by the grace of God, I've been able to just ignore them or delete their post without engaging with them. There's no use engaging with that kind of people. They're probably pretty miserable people and just want to try to make others feel miserable too.