I am a 32 year old mother of 4. I was very athletic as a teen and then gained 80lbs with my first child at age 20. I have just continued to gain. I have no energy to keep up with my 2 and 3 year old. My husband just changed positions at work to a very sedentary job and I am watching him gain very quickly. To motivate him, I am trying to find my own motivation. We live a very busy life, but we sure don't look like it.