Someone who used to be a slim, fit, athlete, but since taking on a husband and a pre-assembled kid, I have little time and have to cook—something I hate doing. Making them happy with food choices are foods that have made me gain weight. I used to be very active riding horses and teaching for hours after my day job, but now all I have time to do is cook and clean, sit at a desk job for 8 hours, do housework and collapse for a few hours. That spells F A T. I'm trying to change and make them do more for themselves and make time for me to ride horses again 3x a week besides teaching riding. I can't fit in my custom riding boots. That's what triggered me to join this site. Enough is enough.