Talk about lazy
I just heard something on the radio that struck a cord:
If there are things you don't understand or you can't cope with, write them down and get them out!
I am the opposite of lazy. Well I am lazy to keep up with my journal and a food diary, but apart from that, it is go go go from the moment I get up til I collapse in bed at night. Ok, I might sit down around 9pm and chill in front of the telly for an hour. I would rather spend it in the garden, but as far as the British summer goes......
My daughter comes for a visit on Thursday. It deeply troubles me that she doesn't want anything to do with my LB. Yes she has met him once or twice, but apart from hello and bye, nothing. I split up from my husband 7 years ago. She is 28 this year. I once asked her if she wouldn't introduce me to a partner she might have in the future....and she said probably not.
I just can't wrap my head around her way of thinking. I love her dearly. She has a good job, a flat, a car. But where does she come from????
LB is hurt by her attitude too, but there is nothing I can do! Or can I?
I have told her how I feel. She says she doesn't want to hurt me, but she just doesn't care about me being with someone else. She is the same way with her father and his new partner.
I did promise her that I wouldn't force things upon her....
BUT!?