sarah_cook2007's Journal, 13 February 2012

wow...you have a lot of dates! wish i had just 50% of yours :) hope that one of these guys will get your heart...and that he does deserve it! The Vow is a great movie, i've seen it last wednesday....at a ladies night (we have here once a month a cinema night called "ladies night" where we get FREE drinks (water, prosecco), movie, and after the movie, a FREE gift of body shop! this is always very much fun! can't wait for you dating updates :) 

LOL Ryan was obviously onto something with that one... I can't believe someone would label so generally like that, "fat girls are easy" Really? I know that I haven't given up my self-respect to a guy because I'm overweight and I want to keep him around, and obviously you're not that type either - there's no excuse for that guy's actions! How was the Woman in Black?? I want to see that one, too. Congrats on getting to the gym - you're doing awesome. & have fun on all these dates!!!!! 

Sheesh, you're a dating fool!!! Good for you I hope one of em works out extra really well, and if not I hope you get some new buds out of it!! Good luck at that gym and congrats on the steady losses!! 

Wow! Enjoy the dating and hope you find someone who clicks. If not, at least you met good people and had fun .  

Wooh boy :) hopefully one of these dates is the jackpot of Mr. Wonderfulness. And if not now, just enjoy the phase you're in, when you're in it and embrace the new one 100% when you meet it. Before you know it Mr. Right will be in the picture and you'll be irritated he's leaving cabinet doors open and leaving his socks where he took them off. :P & good for you for trying new things and doing the line dancing. ha :) i especially liked the line about it being like a graveyard. But seriously - we should all strive to still desire to be fit and move our bodies even when we are old!  

Can't wait for some dating updates!! :) 

Wow, the lil Drama Queen is beautiful... :) about the other day; I made that comment and it (in part) was taken out of context by you and your friends whom so eagerly ganged up to insult me. If you had known me you would have paid more attention to what I said, but that is beside the point now. I made the comment in the 3rd person, and I honestly meant well. But you perceptibly didn’t get what I was trying to tell you. I made the mistake of not realizing how what I said may be perceived. I then thought it best to apologise but it was clear that there was not an apology in the world that would make you happy. Sometimes it is better just to back track, and let the emotions clear up. There is no reason why I would be (or should be) “afraid” of what I said – Is someone going to make me stand in the corner? Even two of my so called “buddies” joined in without caring to ask me for an explanation. Anyone can get dates, but it gets more difficult to eat those bags of salt with someone you truly love. But there is no reason why you should be in a hurry; it will take time to discover that Mr Perfect doesn’t exist. These thought processes are indoctrinated in our minds since childhood and that is why so many adults get disenchanted later on in life. (You may disagree again, and say he/she DOES exist, but then you should just keep telling yourself that and keep on watching your favourite TV sitcoms.) The best we can hope for is to find someone that love and accept us for who and what we are, and off course be prepared to do the same in return. The happiest people I encountered in my life weren’t the ‘Knights’ in shining armour or the Princesses... If you feel the need to vent again, go for it. Uncle Ryan don’t mind :) 

To be fair, you are not the only Ryan on here and had deleted your comments by the time I got there, so I had nothing to go on except how everyone else had reacted. I honestly had no clue that it was you, and if I had known, I would have messaged you about the situation before jumping in... 

To be fair as well...that was a completely bs comment that under no interpretation was acceptable. It was stupid for you to jump into someone else's journal that you aren't even buddies with and write something that agressive...it wasn't like it was a post she was looking for feedback on....you jumped in on a journal and said something incredibly stupid. So instead of blaming her and everyone else why don't you just say you were having a terrible day and messed up big time and give her a real apology. 

What you said wasnt about Mr. perfect not being perfect...I know no one is perfect. But what you said that was offense was about you saying the only reason he wanted to sleep with me is because I am fat and therefore I should be easy because I should be grateful for an offer because everyone knows fat girls don't get many offers for guys to put their p in the v. That's how I took it...thats what it seemed like you meant to me. I will always defend myself. But I apologize if the way i took what you said was not how you meant for it to be taken. 

Thank you Sarah. Again, I wish you best of luck in your weight loss journey. Not that you need luck, you are doing wonderful. Take care.  

AND THEN... there was peace on earth :) :) lol