Who’s fault is it I ask ?
Who can I blame ? There must be someone or even something I can blame for me putting this weight on surely, everybody on FS seems to have something or someone to blame so why not me ?
OK - lets go back a while when I was first on FS and lost tons of weight then discovered the reason was not all my own effort. Ahaaaa I had something to “blame” for the weight loss good Oh.
Then came the medical issue which was corrected by surgery followed by a long period of convalescence and building up a battered body. Oh can I blame that for putting the weight on again then, no says the doctor you cant nobody forced you to eat the junk you stuffed in your face because you felt sorry for yourself.
OK point taken so how about blaming Christmas then would that be legit I ask.
No came the reply for the same reason. It was you who picked it up and stuffed it in your face nobody forced you it was one hundred percent down to you.
OK so how about New Year then and all the celebrations that go with it.
Nope came the reply, again, you stuffed it in your face you were not tortured or even forced to eat it.
Ahaaa, says me so how about the wife then she bought it and brought it home then cooked it and put it on my plate so it must be her fault.
No again was the reply, you have never talked it over with her, you never complained about putting weight on and she only did that which she thought you wanted. She did it from her love for you and no other reason so think again.
Got It…. I can blame that birthday party I went to can’t I ? Oh no you can’t that was a one off thing and you have put weight on steadily for months now and done nothing about it, try again Pal !!
Hey, it’s beginning to look like it is my own fault here and I hate blaming myself for anything. Am I stuck with the blame then ?
YES was the stern reply !!!!