love2educate's Journal, 21 February 2020

I've never noticed your gap- or your lack of hair. OK- I'm lying.-I've noticed you are bald. Never paid attention to the teeth. I 💗 being called skinny- but maybe it's different for men. I will never complain about not being a lard ass but I know I've got a lot of work left to do. And I'm pretty sure people know I have muscle so it makes me care even less about getting called skinny. I assume it's a compliment. And I've been called way worse. :)  

My hubby lost most of his hair by 20. 

I'll take it - skinny.  

I think it’s just funny to hear. I’m still 220 lbs and near obese for BMI, but my bf is down to 17% which is healthy. I’d much rather hear skinny than fat, but I’d rather hear healthy. I asked my wife if she thought I was too skinny and she said no. I then asked if I should eat a cheeseburger or two and she said yes 😂 

bf=17% is awesome. My bmi is barely inside normal range, 25 for my age, height, but bf is 25% ..  

You are awesome, man! Nobody could mean truly "skinny" with your fitness level! I love the word! It doesn't mean scrawny! 😁 You've got to be so proud of yourself!  

I've never noticed the gap either. You do look healthy. Enjoy that cheeseburger or 3 

Lol 😆 you’re funny 😆 

Thanks everyone! The tooth gap has closed over the years and I don’t really think about it except when I think of things people could notice about me.  

My fav was my cousin's first words when he saw me after I did my big drop -- Wow! You lost a lot of weight. I HOPE IT WAS INTENTIONAL!!! #passive aggressive 

You should buy some hair & see if they say anything 😂 

Never noticed the gap either. My brother has one and I always notice his. Funny what we see in people we ‘know’ verses those we don’t. I noticed the baldness, but just thought it intentional like men have nowadays. So you’re naturally bald? That’s pretty cool and low maintenance haha. Lucky you! Question, do you have to shave it daily or none at all? 

I'm a bald woman yikes, I'm still me! my swim cap has fallen off in a swimming pool full of strangers I laughed it off cuz it's not all that important. weight loss is a big winner 💪 good work 🤩 

Haha! Well, my love language is cheeseburgers 🍔 ! So that was just me telling you, I love you...and to bring me a cheeseburger! 😀 

That makes me feel better babe 😁 

Jimmy pop, I had something similar happen when I went to a conference with coworkers and they asked if it was healthy weight loss or if I was sick. Thankfully, I’m not sick.  

I’m sure it’s definitely different for women. Mine is natural (except the sides and back. I’d have a nice horseshoe if I didn’t shave a couple times a week.  

I have a tooth gap. And so do the women on my father's side. I see people with teeth gaps and always think we must be related. Like I am part of a secret club. lol.  

It is a secret club (we’re not supposed to talk about it! 😂 

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