Merry.Mel's Journal, 19 December 2023

Hi All, work well, day OK. Then, I went to see my most wonderful, precious Jim. For those's who have never seen a dead body, it's odd they look and feel like wax. He was too tidy so I messed him up a bit when he laughed he dribbled so I put water down his chin, also put food all around his mouth and put in some grapes because when the grandchildren were little he shared the grapes out so they all called him grandad grapes. a couple of photos and a get well card I made. also an oily rag just in case he wants to clean the car. my weight has rocketed up these last few days. So after Jim's funeral, I promised him I would reach my target a d I am more determined than ever I will after Thursday 28th December. Well, everyone, hope you're all having a pleasant evening. Merry Mel 😍
122.2 lb Lost so far: 4.8 lb.    Still to go: 8.2 lb.    Diet followed reasonably well.
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My heart goes out to you Mel sending u Hugs 💔💔 
19 Dec 23 by member: Nadia Awni
You gave him a good send off. Someday you will be reunited. Hugs.  
19 Dec 23 by member: -MorticiaAddams
aw Mel, I cry with u, sending lots of love for this difficult time, u mean so much to a lot of us on here n thank u for keeping in touch and letting us no how u are xxxx 
19 Dec 23 by member: heatherboardman
what a lovely thing to do for Jim, make him as he was in life. I will be sending you big hugs on the 28th xxx 
20 Dec 23 by member: Lorneylorna
Oh, Mel, my heart goes out to you 💔 When my mother died, they put some horrible brownish lipstick on her for the viewing that she never would have worn in real life. She was always wearing rose or red that went beautifully with her pale skin. I remember staring at her, as if she wasn't really my mother. You will always remember him as he was. Hugs 💕 
20 Dec 23 by member: writingwyo
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20 Dec 23 by member: suma-ya-c
Thanks everyone we haven't send him on his way yet, that the 28th December..But I went on my own to the Chapel of rest. I talked and talked none stop, laughing and crying.. I just had to make sure he was mucky, like Cilla Black said once by gum he was a mucky kid. And he was also a mucky adult. So sending him on his way too clean won't be right. Hope you all are alright. Went to the perfume shop today to buy myself a perfume he was getting me for Christmas. So hidden it from myself. Love you all. Merry Mel 😍 😍  
20 Dec 23 by member: Merry.Mel
Chin up chick all the love to u ❤️ 
21 Dec 23 by member: Cat.wood
aw mel sorry you had to go through that, wishing you the best he is smiling down on you from heaven no matter what xxx 
21 Dec 23 by member: ms.h0ney
💔💔💔 
22 Dec 23 by member: Caiosha
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22 Dec 23 by member: Nikina70

     
 

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