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Ive gained more than 7kgs in 271 days. I feel horrible. I need support, fast!!
Ive been on a billion diets, and my mum is a health FREAK who hints alot to lose weight, comparing me to my sister who is dancing, doing netball etc. She continues to antagonize me and make me feel like crap so to get back at her, i rebel. I eat to make her angry. Ive told her how i feel and she'll stop for a few days but then continue on. :/ Im not blaming her for my weight.I want to make her proud. I'm just not in an environment to lose weight, i'm so desperate!
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188.9 lb
Lost so far: 0 lb.
Still to go: 56.7 lb.
Diet followed poorly.
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gaining 0.4 lb a week
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You need to lose weight for no one but yourself. Find something to say to her the will empower you and make you feel confident. If she starts to say something about your weight, tell her "thanks for her concern, but you have it under control." Do things that make you feel good about yourself. Set small goals (every 5 pounds or so plan a non food related reward for yourself). Find some activity that you enjoy doing that will get your body moving. If you mom is antagonizing you, walk away. It wont be easy, but you need to take control of the situation. You can't change the way people act in situations, but you can change your "reaction" to what they are saying or doing. Good luck!
25 May 09 by member: Suzi161
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