peeperjj's Journal, 06 November 2018

Trying to plan meals is usually fun. It sucks however when plans are up in the air. Hubby told me at 9:30 last night that he needed to leave early so I got to take the kids around to their schools. I’d already told the bus driver that the youngest would ride the bus and had no way of contacting him to change. He has no idea when he will be home for dinner but of course will eat with us. Threw some oryx steak in the crockpot. I’ll make egg noodles and brown gravy with it for our version of stroganoff. Kids prefer cream of mushroom soup so I may make that for them to put on top.

His bday is tomorrow and he has no idea when he will be home then either. He’s had his schedule for weeks and refuses to look at it and tell me. Says he will call this afternoon. His folks want to meet for a bday dinner. He has no idea when or where so don’t make meal plans just yet.

On a great note- the oldest had an attitude change! She was nice once and I immediately praised her for it which made her mad. Repeat twice. Then I gave her the phone back explains that I’d trust her again because she’s being mature and not picking fights with me right now. When she got sassy I looked at my aunts then her with my eyebrow raised and she stopped immediately. I ignored the narrowed eyes then the eye roll lol. Bought her friend nachos and she thanked me! My child thanked me! That rarely happens! She played well and worked hard even with the loss so we ate out, her choice of where. She commented that it was good while looking at me rather than thanking her daddy for my idea. She’s acting like the girl she was at 7 before the attitude came along! 🤞 that it continues at least through the holidays!! Oh and she asked nicely if she could borrow my jacket. The one I bought for her and she didn’t like so I kept for myself lol. She doesn’t like the dress shoes I got her but grudgingly said she would try them. Doesn’t understand that flats aren’t comfy like trainers and they’ll take a bit to stretch and fit her foot nicely. But she’s willing to try! $7 clearance shoes that aren’t Nike! Another win. I’ve itches to hug her constantly but she dislikes hugs. So I’ve told her repeatedly to imagine me giving her big bear hugs each time. Once she said it’s ok and leaned over for a hug! I’m so happy I’ve actually shed a few tears!

Diet Calendar Entries for 06 November 2018:
1211 kcal Fat: 47.11g | Prot: 65.56g | Carb: 132.47g.   Breakfast: Pillsbury Cookies Ready to Bake - Chocolate Chip, Folgers Breakfast Blend Coffee with 3 Splenda. Lunch: Land O'Lakes Salted Butter, Potatoes (Flesh Without Skin, Without Salt, Boiled) , Pork Loin (Whole, Lean Only) . Dinner: McCormick Brown Gravy Mix, Ground Elk Meat , Great Value Wide Egg Noodles . Snacks/Other: Fit Crunch Cinnamon Twist Baked Gluten Free, Buttered Air Popped Popcorn, Clear American Essentials Watermelon Water, Nature's Bounty Hair, Skin, & Nails Gummies, Nature Made Vitamin D3 Adult Gummies, Caltrate 600+D Calcium Supplement. more...
1893 kcal Activities & Exercise: Calisthenics (heavy, e.g. pushups) - 5 minutes, 3PLUS - 1 hour, Resting - 17 hours and 55 minutes, Sleeping - 5 hours, Apple Health - 0 minutes. more...


Comments 
See, it got better real fast! 😊 I believe toddlers test you to see how much discipline you'll give and teens how much respect you demand. You showed her that you are tough and not giving up on her either. Good job mom! 
06 Nov 18 by member: Becc@
Thanks! It was mostly her though not me. It may have also partly been because I told her she was giving back everything she hadn’t bought herself until she realized just how much parents and family do for them as far as material things. Told her last night we would still do it but now she can just sort things in her room. Like one side of her closet will be what she bought and the other will be what we have bought or someone else gave her. Hubby also told her that if she wants that pet mouse she’s after then she needs to start showing some respect AND make sure her chores are getting done in a timely manner. No progress on chores but we were gone until 9 last night. She has 3 evenings this week and a few hours each day of the weekend to start catching up :). I’m so nice that I watered the horses for the middle child and cleaned out nesting boxes for the middle/oldest. Hubby told them to do it weeks ago. Now they owe me haha. They did help with laundry and dishes this weekend so it’s only fair 😉.  
06 Nov 18 by member: peeperjj

     
 

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