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So... buttons.
This will be a bit of a weird journal. Eventually, it will be seen, which means I'll have to own up to it.
Here's an interesting story. Friday night I showed up to my girlfriend's house while she was getting groceries. I decided to pass the time by checking my email on her computer. When I went to her PC and opened the minimized interwebs, her FS account was up. I freaked out and immediately closed it. I didn't see anything other than the FS logo. I didn't want to see it because it was her personal stuff, and she hadn't told me that she signed up for FS. Basically, I didn't want to spy on her.
When she got back, I told her what happened, and then she freaked out. She wasn't really mad at me, but was upset that I had seen it. I tried to calm her down, but she didn't want to talk about it, and I didn't want to push my luck.
The thing is, I already knew about it. She doesn't know that though. She made a forum post, and I immediately knew it couldn't be anyone else. I didn't do anything about it because I figured that if she wanted me to know, she would have told me. I'm pretty sure she knew about the site because I mentioned I used it to lose most of my weight. I never told her my account name, so I'm not even sure if she knows I'm still on this site. Eventually she'll see my profile pic and recognize it.
I'm not really sure what to do.
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Careful with women and weight issues, as I'm sure you already know, most of us have a... shall we say... "less than sane" relationship with body weight issues and dieting :) I remember the day I decided I would tell my boyfriend my weight. We had been going to the gym for a few months and I wanted to be able to share with him my victories so I told him "Sweetie, I weigh 275 pounds." And lo and behold! He was not surprised! lol :) That was the beginning of the end of my weirdness about my weight and the beginning of the beginning of my new logical outlook. So tread lightly! On the other hand, maybe SHE is trying to spy on YOU ;)
03 May 10 by member: k8yk
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eek that is a dilemma, if it was me i would let sleeping dogs lie and not mention it again she will tell you in her own time, maybe she did want to see how you did it and the kind of support you got. or maybe she wants to have the same successes as you and wanted to try it on her own first im not sure but you two seem really good together so im sure you will work it out :)
03 May 10 by member: SelinaMinus60
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Wow. hm. "maybe she is trying to spy on YOU", "let sleeping dongs lie" and "asking her what she thought of fs" ... all seem logical. Only you know her, and can maybe guess if her intentions were good or bad. I think most people are curious by nature so she may have wanted to try the site out w/out you knowing for her benifit. But also, I can guess she most likely found you already... and maybe since this is a topic you don't touch w/ her, she simply wants to know and see everything you do. Not always in a weird stalkerish way LOL but possibly. Then, if weight is a tough subject for her... you know how that goes. Girls aren't as open as you are. We just hide it for some reason or other. Like no one can tell we are fat or something huh? idk. Man, I hope you fix things. I hope you can talk about it openly, and I hope you can support eachother to meet your goals. This is a hard road, and much tougher if you don't have the back bone that close to your heart.
04 May 10 by member: cindyshine
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Maybe there is nothing to do about it, not right now anyway... You know she knows you know. If she wants to talk about it, she will. If she wants to keep that secret, then she will. When I joined FS, I told my boyfriend, because I thought that would help him to understand how seriously I take my health. (it didn't help! he kept bringing cookies and chips in my house, but that's another story...) But I never showed him my journals. Like you said, don't push your chance, let her decide if she wants to keep that private or share with you. oh, and don't worry, she knows you are on here ;-) Good luck!
04 May 10 by member: jessyline
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@k8yk: I'm going to try not to let my paranoia take hold and read too much into that winky emoticon. :P @Selina: Thank you. @glen: That last line deserves a "that's what she said" reference. Yes, I never matured beyond 13. @Cindy: Very true. @jessyline: That's kind of what I'm doing now, because she told me she didn't want to talk about it. I may just give it some time and see what happens before I bring it up.
04 May 10 by member: Divided By Zero
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ooooor maybe she could answer you here so we could all see her reply? Any friend of yours, is a friend of ours! LOL @ comment to Glen, tsk tsk
04 May 10 by member: cindyshine
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@Cindy: Well, I just put my profile back on 'public', so if she wants to see it, she will.
04 May 10 by member: Divided By Zero
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Scratch that, I'm still making enemies in the forums. I'm closing it up again to keep HCGers from prying through my stuff.
05 May 10 by member: Divided By Zero
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I told you! Next thing you know you'll be engaging in a land war in Asia. ;)
05 May 10 by member: wintersmith
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lol, I do love your trouble making skills on the forums!
05 May 10 by member: cindyshine
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