JVF's Journal, 14 February 2008

You know what, no matter what message board you post on, there will always be people with different opinions and differences. Don't let it bother you! You are doing positive things for youself and as long as you are happy, that's all that matters.  

You are always going to find people who are going to rub you the wrong way. Try to focus on those who you like. The fact is that there is a lot of support on here, but you don't have to come here if you can't look past those others. You have to realize, though, that sometimes people get self-righteous about the right way of doing things because it is something they are trying really hard to incorporate into their own lives. And most likely it is something they are struggling with themselves. It isn't about you, it is about them. It is the same way with religion, and unfortunately some people are not as diplomatic as they think they are. Some people don't know how they come across. Don't take it personally. We like to have your experience here, but you have to do what is right for you. If this site helps you then keep coming, but if it just makes you more stressed, then it isn't the right tool for you. I wish you the best.