I am glad he is with you and safe. Hopefully he will be able to rest and get feeling better
07 Sep 18 by member: baskington
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Glad he has you. Just breathe easy and be the rock. 🙂👊🏻
07 Sep 18 by member: GardenOfHeeden
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Nobody knows how to parent until they become a parent - so don't sweat that - he is so lucky to have you - wish you all the best
07 Sep 18 by member: nikeit
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08 Sep 18 by member: g_ortegam
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that is exactly what parents feel when there is something wrong with their child!! The lill guy is so lucky to have his auntie in his corner! Ppl say that crap because they are guilty of neglect and feel the need to discredit you.
08 Sep 18 by member: CrashtestDawnie
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You sound like a mom to me! It’s taken me 12 years to realize that some things shouldn’t worry me and other really should. You didn’t ask but I’ll give some advice/share my experience for you to take or leave. I have anxiety and have since I was a kid. What worked for me was distraction. Works for my kids too. Something engaging that doesn’t allow my mind to wonder and in turn worry and stress. Occasionally if it’s something school related we go over the things many times until they aren’t freaking out. Probably won’t help you here. But perhaps if he’s receptive to talking you can ask his feelings. He WILL be blaming himself at least a little. This is your shot at being mama bear and making sure he really hears you when you tell him how wonderful he is and how much you love him. That’s what I needed and rarely received. Not trying to be bossy but i have been where he is. Not exactly but pretty close. I was lucky to have a great grandma and two great aunts right there to help me when they were allowed to do so. You’ll do great no matter how you handle this. From previous posts I can tell that you put this little guys needs above your own just like any mom would/should. My heart goes out to you and him!
08 Sep 18 by member: peeperjj
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08 Sep 18 by member: g_ortegam
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