I know it sounds insensitive but this is a site for weight loss. Have you considered seeing a counselor / therapist? There are ways to get an earlier appointment if you talk to an omnbusman at the hospital that serves you or ask for an alternative doctor. Good luck.
14 Jan 24 by member: Stengle1952
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Stengle your comment is indeed insensitive. Weight issues often go hand in hand with psychiatric issues whether it be with food fixation or external stressors effecting our decisions. If it bothers you move on dont be unkind.
14 Jan 24 by member: Yearofhealth2023
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I'm sorry you are going through this. I can relate to the stress of young kids behaving badly. I was a stay at home mom with boy/girl twins that would fight over every stupid thing. The only good thing for you is he is old enough for school. I was so happy when my kids started school. I love my kids but never getting a break from the arguing was bad for me. I think staying home with kids is very hard.
14 Jan 24 by member: Sara7200
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You are in my thoughts and prayers.
14 Jan 24 by member: Laurie62707
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I am sorry you are going through this. You are doing the right thing by prioritizing your mental health first. One step in front of the other.
14 Jan 24 by member: Sharon Meetsma
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I'm so sorry Debbie! You go over and above for your family. Sometimes to your detriment. Hugs! Hope you can get in to see a therapist quickly.
14 Jan 24 by member: rhontique
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For more than 1 year you have been my inspiration, Debbie. I followed every post and story. Keep on showing up for yourself
15 Jan 24 by member: NikkiOli
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my prayers are with you Debbie.
15 Jan 24 by member: buenitabishop
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Thank you everyone for your kind words, hugs and prayers! I’m going to make those self-help calls as soon as the offices open.
15 Jan 24 by member: Debbie Cousins
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Debbie, is your Grandson with you cause your daughter is working? Maybe, there need to be some boundries. My sister has her own apartment in her daughter's home. Her granddaughters have been told that visiting MiMi is just like when she lived in her own house. They pop in for a visit, but not every day.
15 Jan 24 by member: SherryeB
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Stengel you are very insensitive-her current issues is having an affect on her weight loss
15 Jan 24 by member: tiffany1908
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🙏🙏🙏 that you find the help you need. You need to take some time for yourself and do something fun💗
15 Jan 24 by member: dnugent876
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Stengle, this is a site to discuss all aspects of our lives and not everyone is here for weight loss. All aspects of our lives affect weight loss and weight gain and emotions are the leading cause of eating disorders. Debbie is using this site exactly the way it is intended and it sure sounds like she's trying to head in the right direction. I am very proud of her.
15 Jan 24 by member: JamesOHarris
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Maybe your child needs to find other childcare for her/his child for w while. This sounds like too much for one person to handle. The child may need professional help. Hugs. Prayers sent for you.
15 Jan 24 by member: -MorticiaAddams
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prayers for you and morticia is right maybe your child needs to find someone who can help take care of the child so you can get a break before you end up not being able to cope with doing it and then he or she would be stuck with finding someone else to babysit your grandchild anyway..I'm praying for you and your family
15 Jan 24 by member: SaraRiley
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I’m praying for you. It sounds like you have compassion fatigue. You give so much love and attention to your family which is so lovely, but you are feeling the effects of neglecting yourself. It’s okay to ask for help with your grandson or take a break while you refuel. Your physical health and mental well being symptoms are a warning sign that it’s time to stop your current course. I’m sending compassion and love through prayer that you will feel God’s peace and direction. 🙏🏼💕
15 Jan 24 by member: shanekwa
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I am so sorry Debbie <3 I have been away from this site in awhile so I haven't kept up with you. Please know I am thinking of you, sending prayers and positive energy your way. Do you have any support groups in your area? We have one at our church. Take care of you.
15 Jan 24 by member: JMA312
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One thing I have learned (and still struggle with) is the concept IF I don't take care of myself I really can't help anyone else.
15 Jan 24 by member: cawildflowr
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I take a lot of supplements that help me deal with stress. Chief among them is A LOT of Stress B complex vitamins. Give them to the kid, too!
15 Jan 24 by member: Su Zen
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Sorry you are going thru this and I echo some of the responses about if it is possible to not take care of your grandson or can you cut it back some. I know that may not be possible and there are a lot of grandparents who are the sitters or care takers. I never wanted that role as I wanted the joy of being a grandparent but that is not always possible I know. My heart goes out to you.
15 Jan 24 by member: Redporchlady
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