I am a 44yr. old mother of two, a 22 yr old and a 15 yrs old. I am in daycare and a part time photographer. I have done diet after diet and just get bigger. When I diet I think about the things I cannot have and crave them. I am in a challenge with my friend to loose weight before our High School reunion in October. My husband is a fireman and in great physical shape. We eat out alot but he has stayed slim and trim. I do not know where I went wrong but cannot find my way back.