They always say that to get you back. There's a reason they are exes. Just be happy in your relationship if it's good; some men don't know how to compliment. Mine doesn't; but I know he loves me. Be happy that you're doing yourself good by taking care of you💓
19 Jul 16 by member: butterflybma
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My husband notices my weight loss and calls me "Mrs. Skinny Butt," but he doesn't say I look sexier or more attractive this way. It's because he loves me at every size. What if he drooled all over me now, and then I gained it all back? This has happened before, lose 20, put on 25. I agree with butterfly. Don't let the X turn your head.
19 Jul 16 by member: LadyinDenim
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It is nice to get a compliment though! I do appreciate when people notice and say something nice or even flirtatious!
19 Jul 16 by member: erikahollister
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My two cents is that you already knew his intentions before you went so you have some conflicting thoughts about your current relationship. Getting compliments is nice, but if he know you are already in a relationship he is stepping over boundaries and into man competition mode. Rarely is that good for the woman, as she is the "prize" not the person. I am happy you are looking good, feeling good, and getting validation. Step carefully dear, and don't lose your balance! j
19 Jul 16 by member: JJohnso
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Yeah, baby! #paydirt #dontlookback
19 Jul 16 by member: jimmiepop
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Maybe you went because you were wanting to hear something good. But I agree with JJohnso & Jimmiepop. Treading dangerous territory & the outcome may set you back.
19 Jul 16 by member: butterflybma
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I don't envy you single folks who are still in the dating game, I would be scared to death to hit the dating scene now-days. However, I do appreciate the admiring glance or the sincere compliment as I go about my day. My hubby has never been over flowery with compliments, an agreeable grunt and a "You look good." is about the extent of his repertoire. As Lady said, he's seen me at my absolute worst and my most fabulous best and everything in between over the last 33 years and he loves me anyway :)
19 Jul 16 by member: debrafrederick
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Complements are great - it helps built the ego and everyone likes to hear they look good.
19 Jul 16 by member: Serenity1956
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Ok Navymom question: but the X say "you look sexy" when you two were together? Or it just because you lost weight? Maybe now he sees what he gave up and what he's missing...too bad for him! I totally agree with everyone who said it: don't look bad and don't give in! As long as you feel good about you current relationship, stay with your man!
19 Jul 16 by member: XshapeshiftX
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i went to try to talk about what happened when we split, not to be hit on. he told me that he dont share his "lady" with anyone else but yet he has another lady that doesnt know that he met me, which i didnt know until i got there. When he told me that i am like i dont think so. he isnt worth my time to have to "wait" until he can make time for me...hell i already have that with the one i am seeing now, but i like it when we get together...i have fun with that one.
19 Jul 16 by member: NavymomT
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he told me that i was pretty when we were together and paid me compliments but i am not a prize to be won or hid...like i said i am currently being kind of hid and right now i am cool with it with this one. and there are no feelings for the EX like he wants me to have. my heart right now belongs to my current. i dont play around when i am in a relationship whether it is a committed one or not. i stay true to the person i am seeing, even if they are not. i know that is bad but that is the way i was raised.
19 Jul 16 by member: NavymomT
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That's me. My daughter calls it serial monogamy.
19 Jul 16 by member: LadyinDenim
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You're amazing & I know we like compliments.... My man is not one to say them. Except maybe dinner was good😛 Stay yourself & enjoy life💓
23 Jul 16 by member: butterflybma
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