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i'm getting so frustrated with my family. I can't ugh.... they're just so annoying. First they say "wow you eat too much eat less" this was a couple days ago. I'm just like....well thanks mom and pop for the help. Its very entertaining when other family members, as in extended family, say "oh wow, you've lost so much weight you look really good!" i just smile and say thanks as one of my parents will go "oh no, she needs to lose more"
Instant sad panda face -_____-.
Then today they go "you're arms are too big" when of course they meant to say back. Your arms are too cut and looking to big they dont look like a girls anymore. You should stop doing all of this and just work out lower body.
So lets recap and reference my two biggest insecurities. 1. Looking too much like a guy. 2. My legs (which i hate)
Thank you mom and dad.
Happy f'in 4th of July.
Diet Calendar Entries for 04 July 2011:
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1511 kcal
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Fat: 65.68g | Prot: 127.87g | Carb: 110.79g.
Breakfast: Dry Roasted Almonds, Canola Vegetable Oil. Lunch: Steamed or Boiled Shrimp, Cooked Summer Squash (from Fresh), Cooked Dry Chickpeas, 1% Lowfat Milk, Whey protein. Dinner: drumstick, fortune cookie], chicken and beans. Snacks/Other: blackberry jelly, Cottage Cheese, Extra Crunchy Super Chunk Peanut Butter, Celery, 100% whole wheat tortilla, chicken breast. more...
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2009 kcal
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Activities & Exercise:
Tennis - 2 hours, Sleeping - 8 hours, Resting - 14 hours. more...
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aww sorry to hear that about your family but just keep your head up and keep doing what you're doing and know that you've made great progress! It's really hard being happy with yourself especially when other people try and bring you down especially when those people are your family/signficant other. Happy July 4th!
04 Jul 11 by member: ADobs
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Your family is going to be your hardest critic. Sorry that they can't see past their own issues to support you. You see that reflection in the mirror? That's the person you need to make happy, that's the person you need approval from. No one else. It's great to receive compliments from folks and it sucks when you don't, but you aren't on this journey to dish for compliments.
I get that "you don't look like you need to eat less or lose weight to me" bit, but this isn't their body. Because my husband is obese, I get a lot of resisitance when I cook healthy things or don't make a mountain of food, I don't pay any attention...I am doing this for me. You don't like what you see, don't look. You don't like what I have to say, don't ask.
05 Jul 11 by member: mammasix
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