Sandy701's Journal, 26 September 2013

A quiet day at home today. I took advantage of some cooler temps and cloudiness to have a very nice walk with my doggies; 3.1 miles with the Collie, 2.4 miles of it with my Lab. I saw my favorite couple out walking too. They're just nice folks who are always interested in the doggies.

I came home and again took advantage of the weather and my already-sweaty state to dig out the dead, or semi-dead, rose bushes and plant the replacements. The plants have been sitting out there, waiting for me to get the job done, so, now it's DONE!

Then, it was time for a hair color session, and pedicure while waiting for the color to finish processing. Did I mention I also boiled eggs while I was waiting?

Anyway, I'm just trying to finish up a number of these projects that so often fall to the bottom of the to-do list. Besides getting these things done, I have another motive...generally, these kinds of tasks keep me happy and away from food.

I thought about my mood yesterday and another mood several weeks back. A light bulb went off over my head and I began to wonder if it's because those are the times I've met some new people and within MINUTES, someone asked me, "Do you work?" That question is right on up there with "So....do you have (grand)kids?" Intellectually, I know that they're trying to be conversational and friendly. But to someone who is not working in paid employment and/or has no kids....or grandkids....

Some days, I can take these questions in stride, but on other days, they just infuriate me. No matter how brightly I answer and turn the conversation just a bit, it always seems to bring the conversation to a dead halt. It's as if I'm not at all worthwhile to talk to if I don't have kids or a paying job. Without kids or a paying job, whatever CAN we talk about?????

No matter. The reason for me writing about this is that I realized that when this has happened, is it just coincidence that within the next few days I'm struggling with food.....or in a pity party? I wonder.

Diet Calendar Entry for 26 September 2013:
2008 kcal Activities & Exercise: Yard Work (gardening) - 45 minutes, Walking (exercise) - 3.5/mph - 53 minutes, Resting - 14 hours and 22 minutes, Sleeping - 8 hours. more...

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Boy you were multitasking...pedicure, hair color, boiling eggs...:O) Yes it is like we aren't worth talking too if we don't work away from home or not have children...but they don't know how hard we work any way...they have a certain look right??..what people say or don't say can play on our minds even if we don't think it does...I know you work hard and you know you work hard..and besides you work at the thrift store..and take care of the home etc..if we got paid for what we really do..we would be rich...Hugs..:O) 
26 Sep 13 by member: BHA
Thanks Bren! Hugs right back to ya'! :) 
26 Sep 13 by member: Sandy701
Light bulb moment indeed. It is good to record these moments otherwise we forget and next time we are in a funk we don't now why. Of course you know you have value whether you get 'paid' or not. If hubby paid you for your work, would that make you a hooker? Maybe you could tell new people that's your job? LOL. Or you could brightly say, yes I am in domestic service, or I am a domestic goddess and work from home. It's like when someone asks what kind of diet we are on. Say low carb or Atkins and their eyes glass over. Whatever, I am sure you will think up some reply that doesn't stunt the conversation, but it is good to realize that that is what is going on in your head. Glad you got all sorts of little chores done and now you have nice hair and feet and a nice garden again. Hope you are proud of your accomplishments.  
27 Sep 13 by member: sarahsmum

     
 

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