baahh10's Journal, 04 October 2007

Hi, congrats on losing a lb! Sometimes a calorie shock is what our body needs! As for your husband, please don't let him get away with that. Its not fair to you, or to your kids. If he can afford a new car, he can afford to pay you your money. Most of all...remember that you need to look out for yourself!! Congrats again, you are doing really well!!! 

Dead Beat Dads, they REALLY suck. I KNOW about that crap girl. My oldest son isn't by my husband and do you think he pays me??? Why heck no ... one of these days though .... I will be there to laugh at his retarded butt when it's hauled off to jail. I'm working on it so wish me luck. It's tough though but you still lost! Way to go girl!!!! I weigh tomorrow but I'm skeerd b/c I think I put on a lot over the weekend and so I don't know if it will come down from 139 or not. Oh well, that's life I guess. Don't go down without a fight though, you sound way tough enough so good luck!!! Take Care of them babies, they look sooo sweet in the pic!!! 

I am going to say this and I hope that we can still be internet buddies afterwards. DON'T BE A FOOL! $180 less a month! You made it so that he could afford that vehicle girl! Don't let this man get away with this. My EX thought that he was going to abuse me and I stay in the relationship with him just because he fathered my child, but I showed him that this was not going to happen and I also showed him that I wasn't going to struggle and my daughter certainly wasn't going to struggle! I informed him that either he was going to help me support our daughter or he would not continue to have dirver license....and this man is an International Truck Driver! This is the law! Their driving privileges are revoked and/or their asses are sent to jail if they don't pay their child support. My Ex thought that I was bluffing until I had to show him. I told him that I wasn't going to be with him and that he was going to help me take care of her. These men think that they can make these babies and then start over as if nothing ever happened, leaving us (women) with all the responsibilities of raising our children alone. No! No! No! You make him provide the other half and you continue to do this as long as he has a job and until your children become of age! A mercedes! I don't reckin he can pay all of his child support! Do that tell you anything? He is not going to do what he is suppose to do so you are going to have to make him do it! Don't let him play on your sympathy. Don't feel like if you let him slide he's going to have a change of heart because he won't. I am not telling you to be on bad terms with this man because your children need to be able to see their parents interact with each other in a positive way, but don't you let this man make a fool out of you. Give him a chance to pay his child support (ALL OF IT!) without turning it over to child support services. Give him one chance to do the right thing....one chance! If he don't do it by CHOICE, he WILL do it by FORCE. I know that you probably love this man, but I'm willing to bet that you don't love him more than you are concerned about your children's well-being. I'm sorry that I had to put it out there like that but you are young and you truly don't know the obstacles that you are going to be faced with. I wouldn't be a friend if I told you what I thought you wanted to hear. So take this information from me and know that I want what's best for you and your children. I've been there and done that. I know what it's like to struggle with one child. You have two and if this man can go out there and purchase a high-dollar vehicle, then he can afford to make sure that his children have whatever it is that they need. You can't make him spend quality time with you and your children but you can make him provide for them! It's only fair! 

no...you make him pay that child support! You hear me? It'll only get worse...he is using you...Ive been there before.