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ok, this is getting ridiculous., lol. still no change in either direction. I know I said the bf and I have been going on bike rides but lately his idiot friends show whether we want them here or not and they show up right when he's getting home from work and don't leave until about 10 there goes our nightly bike rides, halfway blaming it on them but also halfway blaming it on the BF because he won't tell them piss off, we have plans, go away and the worst part is he won't let me tell them that either uggghhhhh
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167.5 lb
Lost so far: 0 lb.
Still to go: 7.5 lb.
Diet followed reasonably well.
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Have the bike sitting out ready when he gets in. If his friends show up, well, "We were just leaving."
19 Jul 17 by member: Trucker Larry
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Sounds like he needs a visit from the mobile spine implant brigade.
Can you find someone else to ride with?
19 Jul 17 by member: T8U9
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I have 2 issues here, #1, having the bikes ready wouldn't stop his friends, they would just follow us., and #2, I'm the kind of person who doesn't really have anyone else so riding with another person wouldn't work for me, I wouldn't be opposed to it if I had any friends of my own to ride with., sadly though, I don't
19 Jul 17 by member: Shrinking_Shamrock
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So where is the problem? Let his friends come for a bike ride. The more the merrier :)
20 Jul 17 by member: schmetterlinge34
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Snork T8U9, perfect. Can you not go on your own? Stop half way for a coffee and stay out longer than usual, he'll miss you and want to come with you or you'll have a lovely few hours to yourself.
20 Jul 17 by member: StrangeTrout
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I feel as if I'm making excuses, riding alone can be a bit of an issue for me as I have epilepsy and am always afraid that I'll have a seizure which is why I don't like going out alone., and in regards to having his friends come along for the ride-omg, you have no idea., lol., these friends are more of a pain than hemorrhoids- I feel like I have to buy stock in Preparation H
20 Jul 17 by member: Shrinking_Shamrock
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I think you should find another activity to do then. if you have a jump rope use it. but at the end of the day those are his friends. and nothing should affect your goals. this is why I don't have gym buddies. because they either slack off of leave me hanging after a week or two. learn to not depend too much on the involvement of anyone else where you're fitness goals are considered. Talk to your bf if it's bothering you that much but still have a back up plan to keep active. my two cents
20 Jul 17 by member: Fat2Fit101
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OMG, when I was married my ex had some truly awful friends whom he knew I disliked -
wouldn't it be great if there were a spray to nutralise them - bliss! Prep H is fantastic for eye bags if you're off out and feeling a bit saggy. May be worth getting some in just for that :D
20 Jul 17 by member: StrangeTrout
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