:) So happy for you to be in a new relationship.How about adjusting the comfortable spiral just a little bit, portiuon control and some excersise could be all that is needed to get back to your comfort (ideal if you want to call it that) weight and stay there. There is no time limit of when you need to reach the goal and you can reach it at a slow pace with small steps, that way you will not alienate your new man, or make him feel that he should loose weight too, and at the same time feel happy about reaching your diet and weight related goals.