145amust's Journal, 20 October 2008

Goodmorning

How is everyone???? This cold weather is getting colder everyday... I need to by a pair of gloves, My hands get so numb from running I can't get them warm for at least in hour after I'm done.

Well I am very excited, I have only 10 more to go before my goal weight!!!! I had a freinds boyfriend tell me I looked great, and then said I was to skinny,,, ?????? UM!!!! I don't think so.. and for some reason and for the life of me I can't understand this friend, that I have known for 17 years.. so she has seen my weight yo-yo..... and when I was big and fat, she would always tell me her thin stories about bras, fitting her or wearing pants that my daughter wears, and buying a size 8 or 6 in front of me, and then the next day calling me and telling me oh I just have to return the pants they are way to big,, and always with an "I'm sorry as she puts her hand on my shoulder"' I know I should'nt discuss these things in front of you!!!!! What The - - - - ???? is all the suppose to mean??? Now, not that I am looking for any compliments, but, you would expect your FRIENDS to notice and say something, well it took her a few months before she ever said a thing, being you lokk great the end.. I almost feel off my chair!!! I said thank you... about 2 weeks agao, again her boyfriend, mind you he is my husbands friend as well and is 20 years older then us and her... said I looked really good, and I should stop before I get sick, you lost it so quick, ignoring a few comments and being embarrased at the same time, she Terrie, said yeah she does look good, soon she will be in my size!!!! I just thought, how and why must you say things like that... it was ok to quietly make fun of me being fat, but now, to make stupid comments, and to tell of you, I am wearing a size 5 to a 7,, and small tops,,, I am wearing smaller sizes then she is!!! but I refuse to stoop to her level... she wears medium to large tops, and a size 8 ... what would you do?????

well in closing just to let you all know I am starting a reformer pilates class today, this one is free, so I will let you know how it goes... they say it is the best and fastest way for toning!!

Have a great day and week!!!
155.0 lb Lost so far: 15.0 lb.    Still to go: 10.0 lb.    Diet followed reasonably well.
losing 1.0 lb a week

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girl let her act a fool.when you get to your goal or even before take HER shopping with you,pick up a size 8,give it to her and say,"this would look so good on you!i can't wear it-it's waaayyyy too big for me.":-D naw i'm just playing-just let her go on with herself,if you stoop to her level then no one comes out a better person. if it gets to really bothering you or she gets worse,talk to her one on one and let her know she's saying hurtful things to you.if she is any friend at all she will understand.hope it all goes well for you!! we have both lost 15 pounds!!!you're doing a lot better than me though!keep it up! 
20 Oct 08 by member: cparker

     
 

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