Hi Deesfit...I am Rosemary...I am goi ng thru the same thing ...Divorce is like a death to me ...I was married almost 33 yrs...my weight is currently around 190 @ 5'2 that's horrible ...But I am going to change that weight down to 130 just wait and see.... if you would like to become my support friend I will gladly be yours ..my cell number is 623)698-7521...text me so we can get to know each other and support each other.