GlennM's Journal, 26 December 2008

I hardly ate anything yesterday, so the huge weight gain of five pounds plus from Christmas Eve's feast is rapidly going away. I refuse to do a weigh-in today. Friday was the worst day to do for me, the next challenge I'm choosing another day if it is Friday. The weekends I hardly eat anything. Or else I'll get kicked off the challenge, whatever. In a way I'm tired of doing challenges because I can't choose the day I want to do my weigh-in. But I'm looking forward to the next as I do need to refocus. A dating site I was on sort of crashed so I got off of it, it wasn't even that wild. A church line said those sites are no good. Where on earth am I supposed to meet a woman then? I have so many problems and I'm tired of living like a monk. The site is not very moral, just like an R rated cable show - kinky questions and all. But I can't be Mr. Pure and holy, otherwise I'll never get anywhere. That is why I've been alone for years. The church line said to stay alone. They all have spouses, etc. I'm sure. It's easy to say if you're not alone.I'm ready to get back on it without a photo as my photo wouldn't let me download more than one picture. It had tests on there I didn't take, and couldn't see - and ones I did were deleted. One site I was on women were contacting me but I couldn't dowload a photo, so the women wouldn't contact me back. It is very frustrating. I may end up on a Christian site as there may be no other alternative as I can't get anywhere on the other sites. glenn :) P.S. the church line - a national one said the devil rules the world and that is why good people are poor, and many evil people have all the money. I'm starting to not believe everything they're telling me and am ready to go on sites to meet women I wouldn't go on as I have been alone far too long. I may have to wait thirty years to meet a woman if I listen to these crazy church people. :)

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What do you mean "a church line said those sites are no good"? I have had several friends go to eharmony - have you tried that one? I have nothing against online dating (I have severalf friends that have met some wonderful people by doing it)...but I also think it would be good for you to just focus on getting out and meeting new people overall. Sometimes that can open doors for dating that you never thought of. I lived alone most of my adult life...and believe me...you can find all sorts of things to do. I did a lot of volunteering and met many people that way; took classes; joined a book club (that was wonderful!); belonged to an active singles church group. Every single person I ever dated I met through these things. The computer dating is KEEPING YOU IN YOUR APARTMENT. Isn't the point to get out? Go, Glenn!!! Go~!! And don't always just trust church people. I'm one of them and I could easily lead people astray!!! (Which may mean you shouldn't listen to me either...tee hee...but I hope that you will at least give it some thought!!!)! 
26 Dec 08 by member: Paige E
Paige gave you some good advice there,Glenn. :). Good luck! 
26 Dec 08 by member: mbhpro
Thanks Paige for the advice. The computer dating doesn't take up that much time. I can meet women all over the place. The dating sites that are R rated may be OK. Eharmony is off limits to people with mental illness like myself with bipolar illness with their screening. I will be honest in my profiles on other dating sites and state I have it so women will know so that they'll see that my income is low and I'm not in college trying to better myself (tried it) - (can't do my former career as a nurse etc.)--- why I can't drive all of which have kept me single. Most of us don't want to be alone, and those of with problems are not by of our own choosing. Thanks for the advice, Paige. I'll heed it. glenn 
26 Dec 08 by member: GlennM

     
 

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