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18 March 2015

17 March 2015

I don't know why I fall into the trap again and again; "The elderly parent trap".
Mom is doing pretty well while we are out; dr. appt., lunch with pleasant conversation about interesting topics, and then Boom! when we get back to her home she drops the bomb and asks me to be honest about why my nephew and sister don't call her back.

I must think that I can have a normal conversation about how wicked she can be to those closest to her, accusing loved ones of conjured up plots and deliberate actions to harm her. She calls my wife "evil" even, a woman who has amassed friends going back to elementary school to the present, to which all are loyal.

Anyway , I try to be very careful with my wording, but she always gets very defensive responding with spurious attacks on me and others. Deflection. She is very fearful about being labeled crazy, or having dementia and being shipped off somewhere.

I'm just trying to help her to get mentally healthy. What I need to do is get back into caretaker mode and not be invested in whatever the outcome is at any given time.

And spend more time on my own health and stress management.

17 March 2015

Weigh-in: 245.6 lb lost so far: 0 lb still to go: 20.6 lb Diet followed 100%
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16 March 2015

Weigh-in: 245.4 lb lost so far: 0 lb still to go: 20.4 lb Diet followed 100%

15 March 2015

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